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We've been married for six and a half years.

The sort of the elephant in the room, at least for me right now, is this idea of transitioning

and how that has changed the dynamics of our relationship and really allowing the space to sort of mourn that transition, but also allowing me the space to celebrate the transition.

Because there is nothing about who I was before that I'm mourning, but I can see where she is mourning

something that's gone or changing or transitioning.

This is other people's problems,

a show about therapy.

I'm Hillary McBride.

This episode, we're going to meet Clark and Megan. We've changed their names to protect their

privacy. Clark and Megan decided to come see me because they're struggling with some grief in their

relationship and some joy and how to make room for both of those things at the same time. He's begun

the process of transitioning to being a male. They're coming to see me to work on some challenges

that are coming up in their relationship related to his transition, navigating what it's like to be in love with someone and see

them change before your eyes, and to negotiate what it means to be with the person who you've

always known, but in some way they're different. One of the things I want you to be listening

for in this episode is the difference between process and content.

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