Matthew Hussey Reveals the Red Flags You Need to Watch Out For | Women of Impact

Women of Impact

Impact Theory

Society & Culture, Relationships, Education

4.8 • 701 Ratings

🗓️ 10 February 2021

⏱️ 55 minutes

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The term ‘toxic relationship’ gets thrown around quite often in today’s digital age, but what does it actually mean? How can you truly identify the red flags and warning signs of one? How do you know you’re not the problem in the relationship? On this episode of Women of Impact, Lisa Bilyeu is joined by the world's leading dating advice expert Matthew Hussey to discuss such matters and more as they explore the red flags of a toxic relationship and what to do if you spot them. They discuss why not everything is toxic just because it was labeled as so, why the rationale behind your feelings might be invalid, how to properly approach a breakup, what to do after you’ve broken up, how to heal your trust issues, why you need to be self-aware and self-reflective, why you need to have compassion when approaching your partner, and much more. SHOW NOTES: Intro | Lisa welcomes back today’s guest and relationship expert, Matthew Hussey. [1:03] Red Flags | Matthew reveals the key red flags to watch out for in your relationship. [2:36] Toxic | Matthew reveals how labeling things as ‘toxic’ can be going over the line. [6:30] Feelings | Matthew reveals why the rationale behind our feelings may be invalid. [12:22] Breakups | Matthew reveals why people use language poorly while exiting a relationship. [16:23] Post-Breakup | Matthew reveals why reaching out after a breakup can lead to pain. [19:22] Forgiveness | Matthew reveals why it can be so difficult to forgive. [22:46] Trust | Matthew reveals how to let go of the pain from your past relationships. [23:40] Compassion | Matthew reveals the power of approaching your partner with compassion. [30:05] Healthy Signs | Matthew reveals what to look for early into a relationship. [33:03] It Might Be You | Matthew reveals why you need to reflect and have self-awareness. [36:32] Be Curious | Matthew reveals why you should never rush to drawing a conclusion. [39:08] Vulnerable | Matthew discusses why you need to be vulnerable. [43:08] Connect | Matthew shares how you can connect with him to learn more. [45:50] Check out our Sponsors Blinkist: Go to https://blinkist.com/woi Try it FREE for 7 days and save 25% off your new subscription. FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://bit.ly/2TIsoKh YouTube: https://bit.ly/2IAbTcH Podcast: https://spoti.fi/2IEajGW FOLLOW MATTHEW: Website: getcoreconfidence.com YouTube: youtube.com/user/gettheguyteam Instagram: instagram.com/thematthewhussey Facebook: facebook.com/CoachMatthewHussey Twitter: twitter.com/matthewhussey TikTok: tiktok.com/@thematthewhussey Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact? Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be! Women of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits: New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more! Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist. Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab. Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub. And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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