Matthew Hussey: If You're Getting Mixed Signals, Here's How to Know If He Actually Wants You (Fan Fav)

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🗓️ 31 March 2025

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Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on: April 24, 2022. What up, homies! It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to the Women of Impact podcast! You know how much I love diving deep into real talk that transforms lives, and today's episode is no exception. I’m beyond thrilled to have the relationship expert and coach, Matthew Hussey, joining us! If you've ever felt like you're navigating the messy waters of modern dating or if you've questioned whether that person you're investing in is truly the one, this episode is for you. Matthew Hussey, with his incredible insight and no-nonsense advice, is here to guide us through the intricacies of dating, vulnerability, and connection. We are exploring the difference between what feels like love and what truly stands the test of time in relationships. Matthew is breaking down everything from the importance of compatibility to how to recognize if someone is really into you or just giving you mixed signals. Trust me, if there's one episode you don't want to miss, it's this one. So, grab your favorite notebook and your emotional toolkit because Matthew Hussey is about to drop some major wisdom on making your relationships impactful and profound. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Overanalyzing Business Excuses 09:13 Building Relationships Together 12:28 "The Slow Decline of Neglected Bonds" 19:37 Evaluating Intentionality in Dating 24:51 Courageous Relationship Conversations 30:35 Humility in Addressing Feedback 35:41 "Unearned Enthusiasm in Interviews" 42:07 "Actions Reveal True Character" 47:56 Questioning Love and Commitment 51:52 Prioritize Self-Care 58:03 Trust Your Gut, Share Honestly 01:01:59 Fear of Miscommunication 01:09:38 "It's Never Too Late" 01:14:47 Unreciprocated Desires and Connection Limits 01:16:35 Settling Due to Fear and Conditioning 01:22:36 "Embrace Authentic Self-Love" 01:28:50 The Importance of Genuine Connection 01:34:38 "Emotional Maturity and Healthy Love" 01:41:15 Confidence Affects Relationship Dynamics 01:45:42 Establishing Relationship Communication Rules 01:50:41 Unmotivated in Unreciprocal Relationships 01:56:35 Dressing for Self-Empowerment FOLLOW MATTHEW HUSSEY: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thematthewhussey/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/gettheguyteam Website: https://www.howtogettheguy.com/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. SKIMS: Check out the Fits Everybody Collection at https://www.skims.com/woi #skimspartner Kettle & Fire: Get 20% off at https://kettleandfire.com/lisa with code LISA Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts. ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:51.8	Being vulnerable isn't me telling you the same insecurity 10 times a day.
0:55.9	That's not vulnerability. That's dumping. I'm making you responsible for my emotional state
1:02.2	every time I feel it. That's not the same thing as vulnerability. Vulnerability is I'm insecure
1:06.9	about this. I'm just making you aware. This is where it gets really like it's complicated but it's not complicated and that's really
1:14.7	what I want to talk to about is that the phrase he's just not that into you. When that phrase
1:19.5	came out me and my husband had this big massive debate about that phrase because he was like yes
1:24.3	like if you're wondering why he's not making a move, he's just not that into you.
1:27.8	It's as simple as.
1:29.6	And what I came back as like, but sometimes you say it's as simple as.
1:33.3	And other times it's not because you're giving me signals.
1:36.1	You're telling me you want to be with me.
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