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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.8 • 2.9K Ratings

🗓️ 24 October 2022

⏱️ 16 minutes

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Summary

Do you feel like your brain is wired wrong because despite your better judgment, you’re only attracted to the bad boys or the players?

You know . . . you love the idea of a great, stable guy who treats you right, but somehow you’ve become so accustomed to the highs and lows of roller-coaster relationships that you can’t imagine feeling chemistry with such a man.

At this point, you may be asking yourself if it’s possible to feel a spark with someone who isn’t always playing games with you . . .

In this episode, I’ll give you 3 ways to create real attraction with the right kind of guy . . . because glorifying unavailable people is a recipe for heartbreak, so instead, we can start learning to enjoy healthy attention and find a loving partner.

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0:00.0	I keep going for bad people.
0:01.9	So what do I do about that?
0:03.9	How do I rewind my brain so that I get attracted to this instead of this?
0:10.5	Do you ever feel like the people you get attracted to are always the bad boys?
0:33.7	Or they're always the projects, the fixer-uppers, the ones that either treat you badly or the ones
0:38.9	that you end up coaching through their problems, playing mentor and therapist too?
0:44.9	When a good guy comes along who's actually figured out his stuff, who doesn't need you to
0:51.0	fix him, who doesn't treat you poorly and oscillate in and out of your life.
0:57.6	When you find someone like that, you think, wow, what a great guy.
1:04.2	I don't want to sleep with him.
1:06.3	That's what I want to talk about today.
1:09.0	Can you make that which you do not find exciting exciting?
1:18.2	Before we even get started, I want to make sure you know that the final virtual retreat of
1:22.8	the year is happening from the 11th to the 13th of November.
1:28.2	This is going to be an extraordinary event of immersive coaching for three days with me
1:34.2	live.
1:35.2	You can do it from anywhere in the world, from the comfort of your home.
1:38.3	I really hope you join us.
1:40.2	For those of you who think it's just a love life retreat, it's not a love life retreat
1:44.1	at all.
1:45.4	This is for anyone of any gender and any age who wants to take control of their life and
1:51.6	their emotions to make them most of it.
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