(Matt Monday): Get Too Obsessed, Too Soon? WATCH THIS

Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.8 • 2.9K Ratings

🗓️ 1 July 2024

⏱️ 22 minutes

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Summary

Do you get obsessed too quickly in the early days of dating? This is often dangerous because it places WAY too much of our happiness in trying to attract and keep someone (even when we don’t really know them yet).

Thankfully, this kind of “anxious dating” is something you can actually solve. In today’s episode, I dive into where this obsession comes from, and give you 5 things you can do to stop falling for someone too quickly and self-sabotaging in early dating.

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0:00.0	When we're single the anxiety is I'm never going to meet anyone.
0:02.8	When we meet someone the anxiety is they don't like me as much as I like them
0:07.1	or they're not texting me right now and that's bad news. Oh, Hello everyone I am Matthew Hasi the author of the brand new book Love Life, which became a New York Times
0:36.1	bestseller a few weeks ago. I'm also a coach specializing in confidence and relational
0:42.1	intelligence who for the last 17 years
0:45.0	has been helping people find the healthy love that they want.
0:49.0	So today's video is based on a question I got from one of my love life members.
0:55.0	If you don't know, I have a year-round program where I coach people who want to find love.
1:00.1	If you want to make me your coach officially,
1:02.8	then I'll leave a link below for you to check that out.
1:05.3	It is Love Life Club.com.
1:08.0	But this particular Love Life member asked me
1:10.4	about obsession in early dating. What can you do if whenever you meet someone you like
1:17.6	you immediately become obsessed, get too carried away and then risk ruining the whole thing,
1:24.8	either the enjoyment of it because you just feel anxious all the time,
1:29.1	or actually sabotaging it by being the person that we become when we get obsessed.
1:36.0	So let's talk about this.
1:37.4	Why do we get obsessed in early dating and what are the five things that you can know today that will help you the next time you find yourself in this situation?
1:51.2	So let's talk about this idea of obsession in early dating.
1:55.8	What are the five things that you need to know?
1:58.5	Number one, identify the feeling that you have.
2:04.1	When we're out there meeting someone,
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