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All right, let's begin.

Emotionally unavailable people.

Have you had this experience?

You go on dates with people you either feel no chemistry with,

or people you feel tremendous chemistry with, but then when they're flaky,

distant, inconsistent, when they tell you they're not ready for a relationship, when they pick you up and

put you down and leave you not knowing where you stand, you start to obsess over them.

You can't stop thinking about them. You really, really want them.

It's the kind of person that you might come to me and ask, what should I do about this person?

If this is you, I want to tell you firstly, you are not alone.

If you keep getting attracted to people like this who are emotionally unavailable, it can come from two different places. The first one is simply an economics, a false economics that can happen to anyone, which is the mistake of thinking that because someone is making themselves rare and scarce and in some cases absent, that that must mean they are more valuable.

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