Are you someone who often brushes things under the carpet when someone does something that you don't like or you feel violates your boundaries or fell beneath the standard you would like to have for yourself. Hey everybody is Matthew Hussey with the Love Life Podcast. I am excited to share this clip with you today. Let's get into it.

Are you the type of person who feels you give too much in your relationships?

Doesn't just have to be romantic relationships, it could be with friends, family,

you feel that you're a giver and ultimately that gets taken advantage of.

Maybe in the process your needs don't get met.

You give so much and then you somehow forget yourself in the process and you can end up feeling extremely

resentful.

It comes out in passive aggressive ways or maybe one day you even explode.

And then the person in front of you says, who is this? I don't know this person.

Because we haven't been giving them a true impression of what our needs are along the way.

So now they don't recognize us.

Now why do we do this?

Whenever I talk to women about this,

there's often the logic that, well, it's because I'm a giver.

It's because I'm a nurturer by nature so I like

doing those things for people I like showing up for people it's just who I am I'm a

very loving person I don't want to cause pain to those people. I love those people.

And anyway, I can handle it. You know, I'm a giving person and yes, sometimes they do things that upset me,

but I can live with it. It it's okay but of course they can't

because it's like this slow drip torture where eventually you suffer so much in

your resentment that that's when that extreme reaction comes about.

Here's what's interesting to me.

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