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🗓️ 4 April 2024
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Before testifying in a high-stakes case, a theorist and his coach swap horror stories about their nerves hijacking them and the lessons they learned.
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0:00.0 | Welcome back to the Look and Sound of Leadership. An ongoing series of |
0:07.5 | executive coaching tips designed to help you be perceived in the workplace |
0:11.6 | the way you want to be perceived. I'm Tom Henschil, your executive coach, and today we're talking about mastering nerves. |
0:20.0 | Asheesh was both thrilled and terrified. |
0:27.0 | Ashish held a senior position at a global law firm because he had expertise in an arcane field of economic analysis. |
0:36.4 | The prior year, a corporation represented by the firm, had been sued over a very odd, very narrow stakeholder complaint. |
0:45.0 | If Ashish's firm didn't win the case, the corporation could be at risk for billions of dollars over decades. |
0:52.0 | Ashish came up with a theory. of dollars over decades. |
0:53.0 | Ashish came up with a theory that would defend the corporation's position. |
0:58.0 | That theory of his had become the heart of the defense. |
1:02.0 | Soon, as part of the case, he was going to have to testify before a judge and explain his analysis. |
1:09.0 | This is a dream come true, Tom. He told me during a coaching session. |
1:13.6 | A theory of mine is going to end up influencing the outcome. |
1:18.0 | Enormous sums are at stake here, and my theory could be the hinge point. |
1:22.1 | I couldn't be more delighted. He smiled and said, |
1:25.0 | I like when people pay attention to my ideas. I love my ideas. I wish more people wanted to know about them. |
1:31.0 | And now they will if he raised a finger dramatically |
1:36.1 | if I can explain my theory to the judge well no I certainly can it. The question is whether I can explain it in a way |
1:45.2 | the judge will understand. I asked, why wouldn't a judge understand? |
1:51.3 | He blew out a breath and shook his head. |
1:54.6 | My nerves. |
1:56.2 | I used to get very nervous. |
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