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The Look & Sound of Leadership

Mastering Nerves

The Look & Sound of Leadership

Essential Communications - Tom Henschel

Education, Executive Coaching, Self-improvement, Executive Presence, Careers, Business, Management

4.81.3K Ratings

🗓️ 4 April 2024

⏱️ 24 minutes

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Summary

Before testifying in a high-stakes case, a theorist and his coach swap horror stories about their nerves hijacking them and the lessons they learned. Tom’s Top Three Ideas for Mastering Nerves: Celebrate Incremental ImprovementWrite Happy EndingsIgnore Your Nerves Here is the clip of Emma Stone battling her anxiety. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VkN0sPQ76E0 Email Tom and tell him he’s crazy here. For Coaches! 2 Resources! 1. Coaching Stories Podcast 2. Executive Co...

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0:00.0

Welcome back to the Look and Sound of Leadership. An ongoing series of

0:07.5

executive coaching tips designed to help you be perceived in the workplace

0:11.6

the way you want to be perceived. I'm Tom Henschil, your executive coach, and today we're talking about mastering nerves.

0:20.0

Asheesh was both thrilled and terrified.

0:27.0

Ashish held a senior position at a global law firm because he had expertise in an arcane field of economic analysis.

0:36.4

The prior year, a corporation represented by the firm, had been sued over a very odd, very narrow stakeholder complaint.

0:45.0

If Ashish's firm didn't win the case, the corporation could be at risk for billions of dollars over decades.

0:52.0

Ashish came up with a theory. of dollars over decades.

0:53.0

Ashish came up with a theory that would defend the corporation's position.

0:58.0

That theory of his had become the heart of the defense.

1:02.0

Soon, as part of the case, he was going to have to testify before a judge and explain his analysis.

1:09.0

This is a dream come true, Tom. He told me during a coaching session.

1:13.6

A theory of mine is going to end up influencing the outcome.

1:18.0

Enormous sums are at stake here, and my theory could be the hinge point.

1:22.1

I couldn't be more delighted. He smiled and said,

1:25.0

I like when people pay attention to my ideas. I love my ideas. I wish more people wanted to know about them.

1:31.0

And now they will if he raised a finger dramatically

1:36.1

if I can explain my theory to the judge well no I certainly can it. The question is whether I can explain it in a way

1:45.2

the judge will understand. I asked, why wouldn't a judge understand?

1:51.3

He blew out a breath and shook his head.

1:54.6

My nerves.

1:56.2

I used to get very nervous.

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