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Brunch with Desb Podcast

MARRIAGE IS HARD / divorce, children, finances (Ep. 138)

Brunch with Desb Podcast

Des Pfeifer

Society & Culture, Comedy, Relationships

51.9K Ratings

🗓️ 25 September 2022

⏱️ 46 minutes

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Summary

Marriage is hard. Kids are hard. It's all hard. But it is worth it. I want to open up about the truth about things Wyatt and I have gone through as a couple, Wyatt's parent's divorce, how that affected him, and why we are in a good place now. As usual, we'll cover some housekeeping, shows, skincare corner, and more!

Time Stamps:

(1:23) Conversation on Marriage and Kids

(3:10) DBFT Fit Guide Launch

(5:00) Catching Up on Shows

(12:52) Spooky Merch

(14:00) Skin Care Corner

(19:30) Better Help

(21:34) My Quick Childhood Divorce Story

(30:50) Fast Forward to Today

(37:00) Advice for Having Kids

(45:55) Share, Rate, and Review

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Transcript

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0:00.0

What's up, my sweet angels and happy Sunday. Welcome back to brunch with Desi and Archie.

0:11.5

You want to say hi, buddy? Okay, he just kind of looked at the mic. So I apologize for

0:21.6

that. He's got a little bit of stage, right? Me and Archie are hanging out here while

0:25.4

Maddox takes a nap. And I'm going to see how far I can get in this podcast. You know, we'll

0:30.2

see how we go. You know what I'm saying? I'm hopefully Archie will fall asleep, but we'll

0:35.9

see. Welcome back, though. Thank you guys so much for the love on last week's podcast.

0:43.7

Sharing my story, sharing the details of it that I usually don't. And if you listen

0:50.8

the last week's episode, you understand why I got not only extremely emotional, but it's

0:56.7

embarrassing. Like if you put yourself in my shoes with what I went through, it is so

1:04.3

embarrassing. Like there's really no other word to use. But I came out of it. I'm stronger.

1:09.4

And if you think about it in a weird way, like I'm literally here right now because of it.

1:13.8

So strange way how life works. You know what I mean? But today I wanted to talk a little

1:19.4

bit about conversations we're having in marriage marriage in general this past week. My husband

1:26.7

and I why it celebrated our three year anniversary. And along with that, I also got a message that

1:33.8

I will play from someone that wanted to talk a little bit about that conversation of knowing

1:39.6

if you're ready for kids. So I wanted to kind of group them both together because if there's

1:44.7

one thing that I don't see talked about often, it's marriage struggles. And I understand

1:52.5

because I do think certain things in a marriage need to stay put, need to stay private, can

1:57.4

stay private. No one owes anyone that kind of transparency in such a private relationship.

2:03.4

But I did want to shed a little bit of light on my experience as not only a child of divorce,

2:09.5

but then going through divorce again later on. And I just want to share that transparently

2:14.3

because it was a lot to process in our first year of marriage. And now going into three years

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