I amla. I've been very open about the fact that I was not always good and making my

relationships work. I have been divorced three times twice from the same person. In other words, I have seen a lot and failed a lot in my relationships.

So I am here to share with you what I learned along the way because I did take copious notes.

Welcome to the R-Spot, a production of Shandaland Audio in partnership with I Heart Radio. Sometimes the right road takes the wrong turn will lead us to the right place.

We don't always understand why certain people, certain situations, certain people, situations, certain experiences come forward in our life.

What I've learned through many, many years of trial and error

is that things are always as they need to be and there's always more

there's always more going on that we can see or recognize or understand.

The thing is this, that when it's time for us to heal or grow or evolve in some way,

life will send us people circumstances situations to

facilitate our healing our growth our evolution and what it looks like to us is this is bad, this is wrong, that person is bad, they're doing

this to me, we'll sink into the victimhood, but there's always more and sometimes that wrong turn is leading us to the right

place. So we should always consider.

All right, there's something more going on here.

This feels like this and this looks like this

and I'm calling it this, that, or the other thing,

but the truth is some part of me has called this

in so that I can heal or grow or stretch or evolve, always.

And it's not always easy to recognize that.

The right road can take the wrong turn and the wrong turn can lead us to the right place

which is always for our highest good.

That's my first caller's story today. The right road took a wrong turn, but

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