I amla. I've been very open about the fact that I was not always good and making my

relationships work. I have been divorced three times twice from the same person. In other words, I have seen a lot and failed a lot in my relationships.

So I am here to share with you what I learned along the way because I did take copious notes.

Welcome to the R-Spot, a production of Shandaland Audio in partnership with I Heart Radio. Anytime we want to know the true state of our relationship, any relationship,

whether it's your loving partnership, whether it's your relationship with friends,

whether it's your relationship with siblings, any time you want to know the true nature of a relationship. Assess, evaluate, examine what happens when you're facing a crisis. You know there's a saying that if you want to know

who somebody is, watch what they do when they're in hot water. Hot water brings out the flavor like a tea bag, you know. If you

really want to know that state the condition, the true essence of any relationship.

Watch what happens when there's a crisis,

a problem, a difficulty. And that relationship is in hot water,

because then you're going to see the flavor of the relationship.

You're going to see the true nature of it.

And it doesn't mean you have to make anybody wrong it doesn't mean that what has

happened previously was bad but pay attention to what happens when your relationship is in hot water.

That's the situation my caller is facing today,

and it's probably something that many of us have faced a walk through,

but we don't pay attention.

Today we're going to pay attention.

Welcome to the R-Spot.

Good morning.

Now what is your relationship challenge issue or dilemma that we are going to nibble on today?

There's a couple things, Selana.

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