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🗓️ 14 October 2016
⏱️ 6 minutes
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Why does it seem so difficult meet people as an adult? When you’re in a new city, job, or situation, it can feel embarrassing to try to make new friends. Well, guess what? We all feel this way, and yet most people do want to enjoy a great social life with fun and interesting people. So it’s time drop the shame. I’ve got 4 tips to help you connect with new people and strike up friendships. Before you know it, you’ll be out on the town with your new crew!
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0:00.0 | Matthew hustled here with Love Life. Do you ever feel like you keep attracting the wrong |
0:07.1 | kinds of men? I can understand how frustrated and hopeless this must make you feel at times. |
0:13.8 | All you want is a good guy who appreciates you and treats you well. Someone who's a partner |
0:18.7 | in all of life's ups and downs. But instead, you end up with jerks. Or you're not alone. |
0:25.1 | So many women come relate. I want you to smile right now because today I'm going to give |
0:30.3 | you a simple way to get rid of the jerks and only attract quality men into your life. |
0:36.6 | Before I give that to you, let's get into today's episode. |
0:39.7 | I want to talk about the subject today of friendship. And more specifically, I want to talk |
0:47.7 | about how to make friends as an adult because I think this is a really interesting subject |
0:52.3 | that is often avoided because we're kind of, we feel shameful that we need to make friends |
0:57.2 | as an adult. You know, we feel like we should have done that by now. And it's made worse |
1:01.0 | by those people who by the age of 30 or 40, they just have this amazing group of friends |
1:07.2 | that they seem to have developed over their whole life. And we feel like it's already |
1:11.0 | too late for us to make lifelong friendships. So firstly, drop the shame, drop the embarrassment. |
1:18.2 | There's nothing wrong with making new friends at whatever age you're at. So there are |
1:23.4 | four things that I want to talk about right now. The first part is try. Change your definition |
1:30.1 | of call from indifference to energetic. So many of us, we act indifferent. You know, |
1:36.7 | as someone says, oh, we're doing this thing next weekend. And you go, oh, cool. They're |
1:41.0 | like, do you want to come? And you go, yeah, you know, I'll check some things and see |
1:45.1 | if I can come. They act so indifferent because it feels cool to be indifferent. Like, yeah, |
1:49.6 | I've got stuff going on. And I certainly don't need to make new friends. Say yes and say yes |
1:54.6 | with enthusiasm. Bring some energy and with it vulnerability. You know, there's a little |
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