Hello everybody, welcome to Love Life. I'm Matthew Hussie. One of the questions I get asked

most by women is what to do when a man they've just started seeing gets too sexually suggestive, too quickly via text.

This happens all the time and there are a few different ways that you can respond. It all depends on the kind of message that you want to send.

I've actually got an amazing script for you to use that shows him that your high value

while still driving him crazy with desire. I'll tell you how you can get this copy and paste text

at the end of the show today. So be sure to listen right till the end. Okay, let's get to the show. We have a question that someone has sent in today. So be sure to listen right till the end. Okay, let's get to the show.

We have a question that someone has sent in today. Matt, what advice do you have regarding

being comfortable doing whatever you want to do and never letting other people's opinions

stop you? There's lots I'd like to do, like I want a meditation retreat, for example.

But I guess I don't because I think others,

e.g. family, friends would judge me or think I'm being pretentious or something. How do I get over that?

The first thing that has to happen is on an internal level, we have to get secure with who we are.

So, for example, if I, I don't know,

if I decided I was going to go and do ballet classes, I might have some of my male friends who would, who would, uh, rid me for doing that and say, well, isn't that a little girlie or why are you doing that

all of a sudden? But the truth is, I feel quite confident in my masculinity. I feel quite

confident that I'm sporty. I like, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I enjoy guy things.

What's the, what is the problem in enjoying something that's different or not it within a

certain stereotype?

Now, in this situation, you have to get right with who you are.

What are you worried that other people will think?

That you are pretentious?

Well, do you know you're not?

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