Love Won’t Fix You — But These Things Might
Seeing Other People
Ilana Dunn
4.5 • 608 Ratings
🗓️ 31 July 2025
⏱️ 47 minutes
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Summary
We’re told that once we find the right person—boyfriend, fiancé, husband—everything will fall into place. But when I got the relationship I always wanted, I realized it didn’t magically fix my insecurities, anxiety, or self-worth. In this episode, I’m opening up about what didn’t get better in my relationship and the surprising things that actually helped me feel more confident, grounded, and whole. If you’ve ever believed a relationship would be the solution, this one’s for you.
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| 0:00.0 | This podcast is brought to you by Podcast Nation. |
| 0:08.5 | Hello, welcome back. I was about to say hello in like a singy way. And I'm going to spare you guys the pain of that. Oh my God, the funniest thing happens. For those of you who know the Taylor Swift |
| 0:23.4 | viral trend that's going around right now from her song Ready for it. And it's like in the middle of the |
| 0:29.9 | and it like yells the word night and people are yelling it into their dog's ears. So when you're |
| 0:36.1 | seeing the trend because it's the music, |
| 0:38.8 | you don't actually hear the person yelling. Like, we've never heard that. We've never seen a |
| 0:42.4 | video with that. So I was filming it. And Jake was filming me, filming myself doing it. And he got |
| 0:49.5 | my vocals of it. Um, possibly the most embarrassing thing that has ever been captured on camera. |
| 0:56.6 | Like me trying to like belt that out first of all, voice immediately cracked. |
| 1:01.1 | Like you could, I couldn't like replicate that in a worse way if I tried. |
| 1:05.7 | It was so bad. |
| 1:08.0 | Like I have never laughed harder and we like got to a point where we like couldn't keep listening to it because it was so bad. But he posted it. Like, I have never laughed harder and we, like, got to a point where we, like, couldn't |
| 1:11.6 | keep listening to it because it was so bad. But he posted it. He does really, like, |
| 1:16.0 | want to become a TikToker now, allegedly. So go throw him a follow. Check out that video. Just |
| 1:22.3 | turn your volume down before you do it. His TikTok is Jake. Solomon 7. |
| 1:39.0 | Okay, so today's episode is one that the whole concept I'm going to talk about today, |
| 1:42.1 | everything I'm going to share, this is one of the hills I will die on. |
| 1:46.2 | And it's that finding the person you're looking for, whether it be a boyfriend, girlfriend, life partner, fiance, husband, wife, whoever it is, |
| 1:53.1 | finding, quote unquote, the one. And I say that quote unquote, because I don't necessarily believe |
| 1:59.7 | that there's one person out there, |
| 2:01.7 | just one for each of us. |
| 2:03.1 | But finding your person is not going to solve all of your life's problems. |
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