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Seeing Other People

Is Traveling Without Your Partner a Relationship Red Flag?

Seeing Other People

Ilana Dunn

Relationships, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Social Sciences, Science

4.5608 Ratings

🗓️ 4 August 2025

⏱️ 60 minutes

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Summary

Ilana and Jake break down a whirlwind 10 days weeks that take them across four states, wrangling three dogs, surviving a six-hour quest for TikTok-famous pizza, and squeezing in a last minute night at the Comedy Cellar. Ilana tackles an unofficial half marathon, while the duo reflects on the agony of losing out on Gracie Abrams tickets, why it's okay that they often travel without each other, Jake’s sudden passion for deep cleaning, and Ilana’s potential breakup with red meat.

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0:00.0

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0:05.0

Okay, so we're going to talk about what we did this week or the last two weeks, which was a lot.

0:09.3

But what we didn't do, we did not go see Gracie Abrams.

0:14.5

Very, very upset.

0:15.9

It's on our whiteboard and everything to go see Gracie this week.

0:19.3

They don't know about the whiteboard yet.

0:20.8

So much time has passed. They don't know about the whiteboard. And by so much time, I mean like 10 days. It feels, it does feel like we haven't done this in a long time, I will say. I think that's like the beauty of trips, even though you didn't go on a trip, but like a routine was changed up. Yeah, routine was very changed up. I mean, if one person goes on a trip. Both people are on a trip. Both people, yeah, I mean, kind of. It's also kind of like a vacation, a staycation too. You had a staycation without me? It feels like it, yeah. Really? What'd you do when I was away?

1:01.3

Nothing special, but like if the other person's away, I think the person that's home also breaks their routine up, you know what I mean? Like, yeah, I don't know. I bet I feel like

1:09.3

a lot of people would think think that right like if you

1:12.1

it's a mini vacation for me too you need a vacation from me not that i need a vacation from you

1:19.0

it's just a change the routine we go from like okay we're doing dinners and this and that and then

1:25.0

to like i'm just going to do nothing all weekend.

1:28.2

All weekend.

1:29.1

It's going to be great.

1:30.3

Fair enough.

1:31.3

But you know that's my favorite thing to do is nothing.

1:34.3

All I ever want is to do nothing.

1:36.0

I know, but we end up doing a lot of stuff together, which I think is just like part of

1:40.0

being in a relationship, I guess.

1:41.7

Yeah.

1:42.0

Do you think you do more stuff because of what?

1:46.8

Of what?

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