If This Was Your Friend’s Relationship… Would You Be Worried?
Seeing Other People
Ilana Dunn
4.5 • 608 Ratings
🗓️ 29 July 2025
⏱️ 52 minutes
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Summary
Carli—friend and now 4x Unfiltered guest (you can catch her most recent episode linked below)—is back for a very real conversation about all the moments we ignore the red flags… until we can’t. We talk about brushing things under the rug, what it feels like to know something’s off but not be ready to walk away, and the pain of breaking up with someone you still love. We get into what it means when someone won’t define the relationship, how to spot the difference between compromising and settling, and the surprisingly wise lessons Carli teaches her young students that we could all stand to learn.
Carli's previous episode: https://open.spotify.com/episode/2pkIT3qzFjS6BwR3MQ9wcP?si=fb54defaca914cb0
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| 0:00.0 | This podcast is brought to you by Podcast Nation. |
| 0:07.9 | Carly, welcome back to seeing other people. |
| 0:10.5 | I'm so happy to be here. |
| 0:12.8 | Who would have thought, was it an email or a DM? |
| 0:15.6 | It was a DM. |
| 0:16.6 | We actually found it. |
| 0:17.7 | Remember we found it? |
| 0:18.8 | Yeah. |
| 0:19.4 | Recently because we were trying to remember how we became friends. |
| 0:22.2 | Yes. |
| 0:23.1 | Who would have thought that DM would have led to a virtual recording would have led to a walk in Central Park, would have led to dinners and now your third recording of seeing other people? |
| 0:33.1 | Technically fourth because I was an unfiltered first. |
| 0:36.2 | We've had three. |
| 0:37.4 | We did an unfiltered and then we did |
| 0:39.6 | the ghosting one and then the update one. So now here we are. You're getting up there as like one of my |
| 0:46.4 | most repeat guests. I'm that is amazing. I'm so honored. I love that. This is the first time we're like |
| 0:53.4 | lights camera action. I know. Hi everybody, everybody. This is so crazy for me. |
| 0:58.0 | So if you want to watch YouTube, this is what I look like. This is what she looks like. Hey. |
| 1:03.0 | I so appreciate you coming. The reason Carly is here, not just because she's a great friend, but because she is the greatest friend. |
| 1:11.9 | And we were face-timing yesterday catching up. And I was like, I'm in a panic. Like, I'm falling behind on recording. She's like, oh, do you want me to come on? And I'm like, what are you doing tomorrow? She's like, coming over. I'm like, wow. Always down to pod. So, and this is a good time for it. |
| 1:26.7 | Yeah. |
| 1:27.6 | Last time we talked to you, you were working through some. down to pod. So it's down to pod. And this is a good time for it. Yeah. |
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