Welcome to the Ransom TARP Podcast. This is Craig McConnell and good to have you

listening in and as we get the opportunity just to share with you some of

things we're thinking, some of the things things were enjoying and wrestling with.

And we've just finished the first leg of a tour that John and Stacey

are doing for their book, their new book Love and War. And what we've done is we've

picked some of the questions from a question and answer session they had and we're going to play some of these

questions and the responses that John and Stacey have.

It's a live recording so some of the quality of the questions may vary.

In some cases we caught the person asking the question and other times John or Stacey are just restating it.

But pretty good questions with some great responses.

So hope you enjoy a bit of our tour Q&A.

What we're going to do is we're going to pause for a moment and do a little

Q&A. We have some things we want to say before we wrap up tonight,

but we've just found it's really helpful and kind of refreshing to just stop, take a break here,

and let's dialogue a little bit. Let's have a little bit of

of Q&A here and I think I want to just qualify that by

recognizing that some some questions are so deep and so unique and so particular to a story that we would have to sit down with you for hours to be able to do justice to it.

So, um... to be able to do justice to it. So up front the acoustics are so great. We can hear you.

Just raise your hand and we'll... A couple questions. Anything you want to ask?

Yeah.

Are arguments good for a marriage?

Well, it doesn't matter, it depends on how you do it, right?

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