This is the Ransom Heart Podcast and I'm Craig McConnell and I'm glad to to host this.

What we've done last week and now this week, short little series on some of the questions that people have asked on the

Love and War tour that John and Stacey are doing right now. And we really think

this is some great stuff just captured live and really hope

that it encourages you. Yeah just go ahead and speak it out.

Yeah, John Aldridge, got much love for you.

Thank you for writing Wald at heart.

That book changed my life real quick.

Right on.

Yeah.

Thank you.

Thank you. All right, a beautiful woman walks into the room, every husband notices, okay. And my wife notices that too. Okay. And my question is, because men are so visually wired, what's your counsel to wives about handling?

I like him.

I like him.

What what's your, uh, yeah, what's your, uh, yeah, what's your counsel to wives for that for that that topic because you know why do I feel

I feel like I am in a boat and it is pitch black at night but I hear the sound of the waves

breaking against the cliffs.

Why do I hear...

Because you are, sweetheart.

There's some really, really important issues in a question around that particular question, issues of love, beauty, value, intimacy, fidelity. Let me try and speak to a couple. Ladies, you really do have to hear from Jesus about your beauty. You need a rock-solid answer.

This is why it's so exquisite to have that relationship with God that you are a beautiful woman.

That issue needs to be settled in your heart and that's what I meant about in marriage the greatest gift you can give is

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