Stacey I love the fact that you're looking at a calendar while we're doing this.

Like a woman.

I keep, they can.

Are those notes?

Yeah, I got a disappointment, I got it.

This appointment, I got on my mind.

I love it.

There's this quote on my calendar. It's really good. It says it's by Martin Luther King

Jr. It says our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter.

Whoa.

I think that's really good.

That's huge.

Stacy and I have been doing radio interviews over the past couple of months, which is something new together.

We wrote a book together on marriage called Love and War, and part of the implications of that have been that we have been doing these radio

interviews, live interviews, call-in interviews, and as we have been doing those I

have been learning so much about marriage, so much about

our marriage, and really getting some clarity on a couple of things. First, I am shocked and saddened at the state of most people's

marriages.

I really am blown away.

Now, I know it's why God had us write this book

because his heart was way ahead of us in this,

and his heart was for restoration and hope and

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