This is the Ransom Dark Podcast and we are in part three of our series titled Love and War.

Now if you have not heard part one until yet I highly recommend you start there.

In this third session today, we're going to be looking at the role the enemy tries to have in our marriage.

We'll talk about the agreements that we make, oftentimes not even

aware of them, and most importantly how to fight for each other. I'm Alan

Arnold. I hope you enjoy this. It's from the audio book Love and War and

John and Stacy are both reading chapter six titled How to Have a Really Good Fight

The Most Dangerous to have a really good fight.

The most dangerous food is wedding cake.

James Thurber.

Stacy is really bugging me this morning.

I can't name it. I don't even know why. She's just

bugging me, that's all. I'm irritated with her. Or rather what it feels like is simply that she's

irritating and truth be told she doesn't seem that happy to see me either. I don't

get it. We just had a very romantic weekend together.

The redemption of our 25th wedding anniversary went like this.

First, we did end up having a party,

not the gala event of the elusive golden moment, but an intimate gathering at our

home, which was even better.

Champagne, lovely cake, loving toast, joy. It was beautiful. The next morning we slipped away to

Santa Fe for three days. There is a lot to tell from that adventure, but let me jump

to the best moment. It is our second evening. We're going to a restaurant

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