Love Languages & Sexual Intimacy
Sex Chat for Christian Wives
Chris Taylor
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🗓️ 1 August 2023
⏱️ 31 minutes
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Summary
You've probably heard of love languages, or maybe you haven't. But when minister Gary Chapman noted that spouses often communicated love past one another, he realized that we express love in different ways. So, he proposed that there are five love languages—and his book of the same name became a bestseller and perennial favorite. Today, we'll talk about those languages and what they mean when it comes to our favorite topic: sex.
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From the Bible
Gifts: Let us go early to the vineyards to see if the vines have budded, if their blossoms have opened, and if the pomegranates are in bloom— there I will give you my love. Song of Songs 7:12
Quality Time:
My beloved is mine and I am his;
he browses among the lilies.
Until the day breaks
and the shadows flee,
turn, my beloved,
and be like a gazelle
or like a young stag
on the rugged hills.
Song of Songs 2:17
Physical Touch: His left arm is under my head and his right arm embraces me. Song of Songs 2:6, 8:3
Acts of Service:
I would lead you
and bring you to my mother's house—
she who has taught me.
I would give you spiced wine to drink,
the nectar of my pomegranates.
Song of Songs 8:2
Words of Affirmation:
HE
How beautiful you are, my darling!
Oh, how beautiful!
Your eyes are doves.
SHE
How handsome you are, my beloved!
Oh, how charming!
And our bed is verdant.
(Many other passages in Song of Solomon demonstrate Words of Affirmation!)
Resources
- The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts by Gary Chapman
- Discover Your Love Language® - The 5 Love Languages®
- Identify Your Spouse's Love Language - Love Languages Quiz (calmhealthysexy.com)
- Speak Your Husband's Love Language- and Strengthen Your Marriage (calmhealthysexy.com)
- Why Knowing Your Low Drive Wife's Love Language is Important • Bonny's Oysterbed7
- "Do You Enjoy Getting Flowers?" What Your Answers Tell Me About Marriage - Hot, Holy & Humorous
- Help Your Husband Speak Love in Your Language | The Forgiven Wife
- Loving My Husband | The Forgiven Wife
- Episode 67: Romance and Your Bedroom
- Fuzu Massage Candle | MarriedDance
- Astroglide Strawberry-Flavored Water-Based Personal Lubricant | MarriedDance
- Episode 10: Tending Your Garden
- Bedazzled, Bothered, and Bewildered - Hot, Holy & Humorous (on vajazzling)
- Episode 120: Our Holiday Gift Guide – Sexy and Romantic Gifts for Couples
Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, we'd appreciate you leaving a five-star rating and/or review so that others can find the show.
Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:
Strong Wives (Bonny Burns)
Honeycomb & Spice (Chris Taylor)
Calm.Healthy.Sexy. and The Healthy Life Toolbox (Gaye Christmas)
Hot, Holy & Humorous (J. Parker)
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to Sex Chat for Christian Wives. I'm Chris Taylor of Honeycomb and Spice. I'm Gay Christmas of Calm, |
| 0:08.0 | Healthy, Sexy. I'm Jay Parker of Hot Holy and Humorous. And I'm Bonnie Burns of Strong Wives. |
| 0:14.5 | Come up your chair to our virtual kitchen table and let's chat. Well, hello again. We have a treat right now in our lives because the four of us |
| 0:25.5 | are in the same room on a retreat in Nashville, Tennessee. Say hello, everybody. But because of that, |
| 0:33.9 | we are recording with a single mic that we're going to pass around. So if there's some audio kind of glitches or something, we apologize for that. |
| 0:40.9 | We're going to do the best we can to be able to record this. |
| 0:43.2 | But we really wanted to get an episode out to y'all with us talking the same room. |
| 0:47.9 | So we just wanted to add that while we've been on this retreat together, |
| 0:52.6 | we had the opportunity to meet a great friend and |
| 0:56.6 | supporter of this podcast, Linda Thwing and her husband Ken. And it was just delightful. We appreciate her |
| 1:04.5 | so much. She's been a great supporter and financial supporter of this podcast. And in truth, |
| 1:10.3 | this retreat would not have happened without her. |
| 1:12.7 | All right. |
| 1:13.1 | On to our topic. |
| 1:14.2 | You've probably heard of love languages, or maybe you haven't. |
| 1:17.6 | But when Minister Gary Chapman noted that spouses often communicated past one another, |
| 1:22.4 | he realized that we express love in different ways. |
| 1:25.3 | So he proposed that there are five love languages and his book of |
| 1:28.7 | the same name became a bestseller and perennial favorite. Today we'll talk about those |
| 1:33.1 | languages and what they mean when it comes to our favorite topic, sex. Okay, what are the five |
| 1:38.8 | love languages and what do they look like in a marriage? The five love languages are |
| 1:43.8 | quality time, words of affirmation, acts of service, physical touch, and receiving gifts. |
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