Hey everybody. Welcome to your move where we help you make better decisions and live with fewer regrets. I'm Andy Stanley and I'll be your guide. Now, we've all heard about people and we've seen people do terrible things and we've wondered how do they live with themselves

the implication being if you did something like that well you wouldn't be able to live with

yourself but the truth is you could people do it all the time So today I'm going to give you three things to do

to ensure that never happens to you. Stick around. I want to begin by talking about your favorite person. I don't know who they are, but everybody has a favorite person.

So I want you to think about your favorite person,

or maybe one of your favorite people,

and this is somebody you know personally,

and if they've passed away,

then it would be one of your favorite people in your life and again they may be living

they may not be living but think about the person that you just think you were just

the most fabulous person and they made such a debt in a good way in your life that mean, again, they mean or they meant the most to you.

It made the biggest positive impact on your life.

And of course, I've never met them, but I bet I know a few things about them that all of our favorite people have in common.

They were, they were or they're not consumed with themselves.

And the smaller or the more insignificant they tried to be, or the more humble they tried to be,

they actually got larger in your estimation.

And maybe the best thing about them, the closer you got, the better they looked.

The closer you got, the more authentic they became, there wasn't duplicity, they weren't

faking it. The more time you spent with them,

there was just goodness that was kind of through and through.

And here's something else about them that perhaps you haven't thought about it in these terms.

They did not live their lives like this.

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