Hi everybody welcome to your move where we hope you make better decisions and live with fewer regrets.

I'm Andy Stanley and I'll be your guide and here's a question for you.

Have you ever forgiven someone without being asked? You just decided and you forgave and then you moved on and the next time you ran into that forgiven person you were fine even if they weren't.

Did you know that is exactly what God did for you.

Not so sure, I get it, and that's why we're talking about it right here on your move. Have you ever forgiven someone without being asked like you just decided you know what I'm not going to

forgive them. You just decided without them knowing without them

without telling them. You just decided, I just, I'm

going to forgive you, I'm going to forgive them, then you just,

you moved on.

And they didn't even know.

And then maybe you ran into them later

and they kind of had this awkward moment

and then you remembered, oh yeah, I already forgave you

and you could smile and act like nothing happened or maybe they didn't even know anything that happened that they needed to be forgiven, but you realize, oh, I'm kind of lighter, I'm kind of fine, right? Or have you ever forgiven some,

you've just decided to forgive somebody

and didn't tell them, you just decide

I'm not going to carry this.

And then later, this isn't as usual,

later, they came back and apologized and owned it and if that's the case do you

remember what you said or you remember what you thought you may have said it you may have

even said well actually I forgave you the moment it happened or I've already

forgiven you or I've already forgotten about that because you've kind of

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