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Culture Study Podcast

Let's Collectively Fantasize About a Family-Friendly Society

Culture Study Podcast

Culture Study Podcast

Society & Culture, Arts

4.5789 Ratings

🗓️ 14 January 2026

⏱️ 68 minutes

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Summary

"Family-friendly society" sounds SO BORING but listen: it's what we all want. It's what singles and elders want, it's what parents and partnered people without kids want, it's what KIDS WANT. A society that takes all of us — and our needs and capacities — seriously?? That considers all of us, in whatever scenario we find ourselves, AS A FAMILY? When we announced that we were doing this episode, we got a ton of questions asking us to also consider people who weren't parents in their 30s and 40s, and yes, of course, team, I would never approach this topic without thinking expansively about it — as in, expansively enough to include me, and our beloved co-producer Melody, and all of our various family configurations. I would only do an episode with expansive questions like yours with someone (with tremendously policy experience) who understands "family-friendly" expansively. So listen in as Elliot Haspel and I imagine a better (and possible!) family-friendly world.AND GREAT NEWS: WE HAVE VERY GOOD EPISODE TRANSCRIPTS NOW! They come out within 24 hours of the pod, so you just have to be a little patient and then come back and click here. We pay an actual human for help with these, so thank you for either being a paid subscriber or listening to the ads that make this model possible!If you're a paid subscriber and haven't yet set up your subscriber RSS feed in your podcast player, here's the EXTREMELY easy how-to .And if you're having any other issues with your Patreon subscription — please get in touch! Email me at annehelenpetersen @ gmail OR submit a request to Patreon Support. Thank you for making the switch with us — the podcast in particular is much more at home here!Thanks to the Sponsors of Today's Episode!Get 15% off your first order of high-quality, refillable cleaning products at Blueland.com/CULTUREWake up with clearer skin, smoother hair, and cooler sleep. Use code CULTUREPOD for an extra 30% off at blissy.com/CULTUREPODCozy up with your pup this season! Go to ollie.com/culture and use code CULTURE to get 60% off your first box!Get $35 off your first box of wild-caught, sustainable seafood—delivered right to your door. Go to:  https://www.wildalaskan.com/CULTUREShow Notes:Find out more about Elliot's work here — and buy Raising a Nation: 10 Reasons Every American Has a Stake in Child Care for All hereSubscribe to Elliot's truly excellent newsletter, The Family Frontier, hereA pretty fantastic write-up of the 1971 Comprehensive Childhood Development Act (and its failure) by the Institute for Research on PovertyMore on "the curb-cut effect"Elliot cites a now famous maxim from the former mayor of Bogotá mayor, Enrique Peñalosa: "children are a kind of indicator species, if we can build a successful city for children, we will have a successful city for everyone.”"70% of children under the age of 6 have all available parents in the workforce" Elliot cites Elissa Strauss's book When You Care — here's my interview with herOnly 13.9% of US workers were part-time in December 2024 — compare to the EU numbers here!!!Chamber of Mothers! The AMAZING coconut-miso-ginger curry I mention in the Wild Alaskan ad! We're currently looking for your questions for future episodes about:New trends you've noticed in the world of MOMFLUENCERS How we think about the morality of money and taxes — who should pay taxes, who shouldn't, who "deserves" money, who doesn't, how we came to decide that religious organizations shouldn't pay taxes (and how that belief is changing), SO MUCHHow to process all the STUFF accumulated from relatives (we have a really helpful organizer with a bunch of mental health training for this one!)The State of The CHAIN RESTAURANT — and chain restaurant supply chain!!! (I'm so excited for this one)Wedding culture (especially the more, uh, cult-like or obligatory components) What would LIFE AFTER CARS look like?? (With the hosts of the War on Cars pod!) For our next Culture Of Place: Puerto Rico!Anything you need advice or want musings on for the AAA segment. You can ask about anything, it’s literally the name of the segmentAs always, you can submit your questions (and ideas for future eps) hereFor this week’s discussion: What did this conversation make you want the MOST? What feels like it could be possible in our lifetimes, and what still feels intractable?

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0:00.0

Hey everyone, we're getting back into the swing of recording, and as always, we need your questions.

0:05.5

So here's a quick rundown of all of the recordings that are coming up.

0:09.3

Money and morality, specifically as related to taxes, who should pay taxes, why we pay taxes,

0:14.2

all that sort of thing. Wedding culture, what's weird, what's culty, what's changing about it,

0:24.9

the culture of Puerto Rico, take that as expansively as you'd like but we are pegging it to two bad bunnies performance at the super bowl chain restaurants

0:30.2

what's changed what's the same also thinking about supply chains and how they work with chain

0:34.8

restaurants dark academia this one's going to be really good, mom fluencers, what's different, what you've noticed, what's changing, and then

0:43.7

life after cars. So you can submit your questions at tiny URL.com slash culture study pod,

0:50.3

and that's also where you can submit ideas for future episodes and anything you want for the

0:55.2

ask and anything segment. Our guest hosts always comment on how thoughtful and smart your

1:00.0

questions are, so we're very excited to see what you come up with. Okay, on with today's show.

1:09.0

This is the Culture Study podcast, and I'm Anne Helen Peterson.

1:16.7

Hi, I'm Elliot Haspel.

1:17.8

I'm a child and family policy expert and author of the book Raising a Nation,

1:21.1

10 Reasons Every American Has a Stake in Child Care for All.

1:24.9

So, you know, we sent out this question that was like, listeners, send us your question about

1:31.2

making a family-friendly society or what would that actually look like?

1:35.1

And the most popular answer, by far, was some variation of why does the school day end

1:42.1

at 3.30, but work ends at 5. This sucks.

1:46.0

Yep. And all of its different iterations. And also questions about the length of the school year and that sort of thing. And, you know, that question is pointing at so many different things. But I wonder if we can talk just to start about why is this the number one thing that comes to people's

2:01.4

mind when we talk about a family-friendly society? Yeah, absolutely. It's such a mismatch, right?

2:06.4

Like, it's a fundamental time mismatch, and it causes so many challenges. And it's interesting,

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