In this Lessons episode, explore why searching for purpose often creates confusion rather than clarity.

Discover how reframing life as a process of growth removes pressure to find a single calling.

Understand why purpose emerges through action instead of overthinking

and uncover how following curiosity, skill development, and service reveals direction over time.

Then following that path, how do we find, so now we've accepted, we've, we've, we've accepted that we're telling ourselves lies we're coming to terms with

these how do you find clarity on that thing that one thing you're meant to do because that is

if i even start to think about it if i even start to say oh i don't like my job or you know i don't

like my relationship that's fine i can understand that and i could be realistic with myself about that but then i think about the the the the massive amount of things

that i could do in instead of the job or okay all of that that's so vast yeah you're talking a bit

about the the the the theme around purpose now, you know, in terms of,

well, now you have to find your purpose. You can't leave people here. They're going to be

stressed out. They're going to be like, don't leave me in the free fall. Yeah. Okay, so,

so I have a perspective around this.

So I'm going to start, okay, I'm going to start a bit from the macro and then I'm

going to get very, very, very specific for people that will give them actionable things

in terms of what to do.

So I'm going to start saying first off, stop seeking your purpose.

Stop seeking your purpose.

The drive to find your purpose is actually taking you further away from trying to find your purpose.

And many times the ego, who we think ourselves to be, are perceived sense of self and conditioned self that we attach to.

The ego's job is to reinforce its existence.

And so one of the ways that ego reinforces its existence is to seek and seek and seek and seek and seek and seek and seek and

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