Late Counselors, Kirk Official Complaint, and Partner Anxiety
Psychology In Seattle Podcast
Kirk Honda
4.6 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 20 March 2023
⏱️ 69 minutes
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00:00 Late counselors & reinforcing habits
35:28 Dr. Kirk's first official complaint
48:20 Comfort after a suicide attempt
51:55 Shout out to Saskatchewan
53:00 Processing potential rejection
57:52 Preoccupied & avoidant people
1:06:47 Explaining C-PTSD to a partner
March 20, 2023
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| 0:00.0 | So Bob, patron emails. What do you say? Yeah. So patron Brenda on Patreon, she commented about |
| 0:07.6 | something that I think is relevant to you and I that I wanted to ask you about. I recently |
| 0:12.3 | ran an episode in which you and I talked about being late to sessions as a therapist. |
| 0:17.6 | Yeah, that one generated some mail. And I was pretty much going off on therapists. This is |
| 0:23.1 | before I knew you, yeah, because it was a later episode. You know, I think about you every hour. |
| 0:29.0 | When I'm starting a new session, every hour of every week of every client every I when |
| 0:34.9 | the session starts, I think about you. It's like, it's 901. It's Kirk, you know, and I don't really |
| 0:42.0 | have a complete thought, but it's like, yeah, Kirk. Well, walk me through. What is the vibe? |
| 0:47.8 | Is it is he upset with me? What would he say? Yeah, what would he say? What would he say? |
| 0:53.0 | So this session starts at 901. Yeah. And you're like, oh crap, or not, well, what do you think? |
| 0:58.4 | Just independent of my voice. It's like, warmed its way into your head. What I wonder, what is my |
| 1:02.9 | client think about this? I'm pretty punctual. I mean, I'll start a session at 902. 901. You're very |
| 1:09.6 | punctual with me with you. I'm here. Yeah, I should be good. I got here in 12 minutes. You're like, |
| 1:14.8 | I will, if I invite you to a thing, yeah, or you say you're going to show, I always figure you'll |
| 1:21.6 | be on time, or even a little early. Yeah. Yeah. Right. But you've said that there are times when |
| 1:27.5 | you get kind of frazzled with a bunch of clients and you go over with one client. Yeah, that's a |
| 1:33.0 | mismanagement of my own emotions, really, is what that is. What do you mean? If you don't |
| 1:37.6 | end a session on time, it's because you're not me. If I don't end a session on time, it's because |
| 1:41.4 | I'm not managing my own feelings because it is reasonable for a session to end at five minutes |
| 1:46.4 | to. That's my policy. It's 55-minute hour. Meaning that you, I'm been inserting my own |
| 1:51.8 | interpretation. Yeah. That you worry that you're not being a good therapist if you don't go |
| 1:56.4 | long. Yeah. Yeah. You're with a client. Right. It's getting particularly kind of |
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