Hey guys welcome back to pre-liance podcast this is Sarah and Whitney and we have our favorite. Hi Jenny

Clear Black Station. You guys know her preview moms. Jenny comes in clutch so many times to get us ready for baby to get us how to feed baby either which way you choose how to take care of yourself and babies.

So we brought Jenny back today because a constant theme we have been hearing from our

moms is okay what's happened to me where are we at we're titling this episode labor episode, Labor of a Mother, and when you're thinking about

Labor of a Mother, think of this emotionally, physically, transformatively, and no one better

to talk about it than I mean hello we're in

delivery nurse to Jenny so happy to be back

Jenny let's talk to I know we text about this

the mom who's saying, what have I done? Yes.

I told Jenny the other day, I said it.

I remember specifically post-Babie J and Will,

but baby James the most, okay? He was in his little

strapped on carrier. I was walking in the neighborhood. I call him and my

best friend. She's in Boston. She's older kids.

Hysterical crime. What have I done? What have I done? What have I done? You know, and I can only say to her, but so many moms

have that, what have I done. Yes.

And I think there's so much shame with that

because these moms think, I'm the only one that feels this way.

Like, how can I have these feelings with this new baby?

And you're not alone because this is something I hear on a weekly basis that I feel like I've ruined my life or what have I done my life was so great and now I've ruined it and I rent it and that is a very common theme and thought that we hear and there should be no

shame in that because it's normal.

It makes you human.

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