This is the virtue.

Man, a lot of you guys already remember this, that when you got divorced and you had

kids, maybe it was your first time celebrating Thanksgiving or Christmas with the kids by

yourself without your ex.

Oh, you can freak out or something like that.

And in this email, he's a single dad now and he's hosting Thanksgiving for the first

time and he is freaked out.

Can you help him out?

Bert, I know you are engaged to Tiffany and your Thanksgiving's probably look a lot different

now than they did a few years ago.

However, I'm hoping you may still remember what it was like or how you handled Thanksgiving

and other holidays as a newly single dad after a divorce.

This is what I'm facing right now and I feel lost.

My ex and I have been together for 15 years.

She did nearly everything when it came to the holidays.

Before I was with my wife, my mother always handled Thanksgiving dinner.

Well, now I'm a single man once again.

I have three kids and they are with me on Thanksgiving.

It's just going to be the four of us because traveling is impossible this year.

So I'm feeling a bit lost and overwhelmed.

My kids are expecting a typical Thanksgiving and I don't have the skills or knowledge on

how to give that to them.

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