Hello, Comfy Donts, my ah, healed, choosing, putting yourself first bad bitch, Comfy Donts.

Welcome to another episode of Confidently and to cure this is the podcast where we are

absolutely sure we don't know everything. I am your host Kelsey Derra and in continuing this

amazing series that we are doing on, you know, uncoupling, breaking up after what I have just

been going through with my relationship. This story, this week's guest, I am so excited to talk

about because when I got the blurb about this person's story, my jaw just about fell to the floor

and I thought this could not come in at a better time to be talking about choosing yourself,

moving forward, making a plan for your life despite what society thinks about it. And I want

to introduce you guys this week's guest. She is a, first of all, queer, terrible legend, oh my god,

and author of knocking myself up which chronicles her choice to get pregnant and have children as a queer,

uninsured, single 40 year old woman. Along the way she falls in love with a wholesome gender

queer a decade her junior attempts to bio hack herself a baby with black market fertility meds

and which enchanted honey learns that her eggs are busted and enters the fertility industrial

complex in order to carry her younger lover's baby. She also produces and hosts the Your Magic

Podcast where she reads tarot cards for Roxanne Gay, Phoebe Bridgers and other artists as well as

a live tarot show, ask the tarot on Spotify Green Room. This week's guest so excited to welcome

Michelle T. Hi Michelle. Hi, thanks for having me. Okay, girl, what the flying fuck when I thought

the like log line of your book. I just shot myself because first of all, I think you might be me in

the future like eight years. I don't know. Yeah. I'm coming out of this and coupling. I am bisexual.

I am someone who does a lot of things on her own, but you really, you really did that. So the first

thing I got to ask is like, how the hell did we end up here with the choice of, you know, knocking

yourself up? Well, I think, you know, like a lot of people, um, I was really ambivalent for like my

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