Kirk & Humberto Fight & Cry
Psychology In Seattle Podcast
Kirk Honda
4.5 • 1.3K Ratings
🗓️ 28 June 2023
⏱️ 97 minutes
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00:00 Dr. Kirk's history with Humberto
07:56 The previous argument
18:56 Post-argument & audience reception
25:05 Trying to clarify Humberto's point & the fight
30:26 Feeling shame & the underlying issue
49:20 Dr. Kirk & Humberto's apologies
52:54 Friendship trauma & repairing trauma
1:18:32 Humberto's family & personal growth
1:32:40 Conclusion & vulnerability
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Jun2 28, 2023
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| 0:00.0 | Hey, deserve listeners. Today's episode is the most difficult episode that I've ever |
| 0:04.7 | bade or put out there into the world. And I thought a long time about whether or not |
| 0:11.1 | to even put it out there. But I concluded that I would in the end for a variety of reasons. |
| 0:16.5 | So in this episode, I'm bare don't I get into a big fight. And we're fighting about a |
| 0:20.6 | previous fight. And in some ways you could say we're fighting about all the fights we've |
| 0:24.3 | been in. I'm going to spoil the ending by saying it resolves. We resolve it. We come together. |
| 0:29.9 | We cry together. We hug it out. And we're closer than ever now because of the fight and |
| 0:35.4 | because of us working at trying to work it out, us trying to understand each other, us trying |
| 0:41.0 | to apologize, right? Trying to take responsibility. And that's new. We've apologized to each other |
| 0:47.7 | before, but not in this way. And I've never heard or seen the kind of things that I heard |
| 0:54.1 | and saw from Umberto as I did at the end of this fight. And the reason why I'm spoiling |
| 0:58.7 | the ending is because it goes on for a while. The fighting goes on for a while. And for a |
| 1:03.1 | lot of you who have been with us for many, many years, it might be traumatic literally to |
| 1:09.0 | watch people that you care about fight it with each other and hurt each other and be |
| 1:13.5 | mean to each other. And some of you might have traumas around that, right? If you grew up |
| 1:17.9 | in a conflictual household. So one, monitor that for yourself, but also know that it resolves. |
| 1:25.7 | It's not going to take away the tension in the moment because I'm guessing. Even though |
| 1:30.8 | I know that it resolves when I was reviewing this, it's really hard. And by the way, if you're |
| 1:36.8 | listening to this on an audio version, there's a video version on YouTube, which adds a |
| 1:41.2 | whole layer of body language and facial expressions. But for some of you on YouTube, you might |
| 1:45.4 | not really know Umberto that well because you watch my other kind of stuff. But know that |
| 1:50.8 | a better and I have been very close friends. You could argue best friends for about 20 years |
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