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Psychology In Seattle Podcast

Ultimatum Queer Love (Rebecca-sode)

Psychology In Seattle Podcast

Kirk Honda

Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.51.3K Ratings

🗓️ 26 June 2023

⏱️ 94 minutes

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Summary

Dr Kirk and Rebecca discuss the reality TV show, Ultimatum Queer Love.

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00:00 Intro

01:16 Queer archetypes in the cast

20:25 What did Ultimatum: Queer Love get wrong?

23:18 'Masc' in queer context

34:13 Is Rebecca femme or masc?

35:49 Favorite & least favorite cast members

49:27 Attachment styles & representation

1:09:46 Topping/bottoming & sex scenes

1:19:05 Did Rebecca like Vanessa?

1:22:24 Dr. Kirk's new art piece & Rebecca's mom

1:26:45 Who would Rebecca choose on Ultimatum?


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June 26, 2023

The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®


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0:00.0

So Rebecca, I don't know if I've ever been as excited as I am today and I don't know if I've

0:04.5

ever seen you as excited to sit in this chair and talk with me about a topic before.

0:10.4

This might be the greatest day of my life.

0:14.8

This might be, I mean, it's pride as we're recording this.

0:19.8

As we're recording this, who knows when I'll come up.

0:21.9

But I've gotten to spend the lot.

0:23.7

So you asked me to do this two weeks ago?

0:26.1

Yeah, I was watching the show Ultimatum Queer Love and about halfway through the first episode,

0:32.4

I was just like, oh my god, I have to have Rebecca on the show to talk about this

0:37.2

for so many reasons.

0:38.9

One, I don't even know if Rebecca watches reality TV and I just think it would be here,

0:43.8

hilarious just to see her watch it.

0:46.2

One, I mean, do you watch reality TV?

0:47.8

I don't, I barely watch any of it.

0:49.6

I've never been able to watch a full series.

0:52.8

And this, so you asked me that question.

0:56.0

And it was already like a bomb had gone off in my therapy practice.

0:59.7

Like this, it was all any of my queer clients were talking about.

1:02.8

Oh.

1:03.5

And then you asked me.

1:05.0

And then my teenager came home like in a fury talking about it.

1:09.6

And I was like, it was like a bomb went off in the queer community.

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