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True Crime with Kendall Rae

Killed by Her Ex-Lover After Confrontation With New Boyfriend?! The Case of Alex Pennig

True Crime with Kendall Rae

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True Crime

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 15 January 2026

⏱️ 52 minutes

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Summary

On December 16, 2022, 32-year-old nurse Alex Pennig had been found dead in her bathroom at home, victim to an allegedly self-inflicted gunshot wound to the head. But there were some serious inconsistencies with how she would have shot herself using her non-dominant hand, and why her hands were completely clean. Also in her apartment at the time was Matthew Ecker, a fellow nurse she was seeing who was supposedly just hanging out in the next room when she shot herself… with his gun.

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0:00.0

Hello, everyone, and welcome back to another episode of True Crime with Kendall Ray.

0:11.1

Thank you so much for joining me.

0:13.3

And if you're new to my show, then welcome.

0:15.2

I'm happy to have you here.

0:16.5

So, you guys, today we are going to be talking about the wildly bizarre case of Alexandra

0:24.3

Penig. And the reason I say it's bizarre is because I just can't wrap my mind around how

0:32.2

things went downhill the night that this happened so quickly. It's one that I will be super curious to hear your

0:39.8

opinion on because I know there are a lot of opinions out there on this case. There are a lot of

0:45.6

people who believe that the jury got it wrong and many others believe that justice was served.

0:52.0

It all kind of depends on, you know, which version of events

0:56.2

you believe and if the evidence is compelling enough to you. And with that, let's go ahead and

1:01.3

start talking about Alex's case, starting with how her story began. Alexander Penning,

1:07.2

or Alex, as most people called her, was born on December 22nd, 1989 to her parents

1:12.1

married Joe and Jim. And she was living in Minnesota at the time of her death, specifically in

1:17.8

St. Paul, although I wasn't able to get clarity on where she was born and raised. From what I was

1:22.9

able to find, though, it's obvious to me that she made a big impact in her 32 short years of life.

1:28.9

Alex has lovingly been described as smart, empathetic, vibrant, and also as someone who has

1:34.5

always had a place in her heart for the underdogs in our society.

1:38.2

She deeply cared for her family and her friends, and she also had a soft spot for animals.

1:43.4

I learned that she often brought in

1:45.1

stray cats, girl after my own heart. This one was a stray that I found outside of my apartment

1:51.3

complex a long time ago as the baby and I bottle fed her, so I totally get it. She even had two cats

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