Keeping Calm and Cool: How to Manage Difficult Emotions with Stacy Kesten
Negotiate Anything
American Negotiation Institute
4.7 • 748 Ratings
🗓️ 6 October 2021
⏱️ 17 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | Hey everyone and welcome to our throwback episode. In our throwback episodes, we are reintroducing you to some of our most popular episodes. |
| 0:10.1 | This is great for new listeners who want to learn more about the work we've done in the past. |
| 0:14.0 | And it's a great refresher if you've been a listener for a long time. |
| 0:18.1 | Enjoy. |
| 0:19.9 | I want to get a little bit deeper in mindfulness because I think that's been one of the |
| 0:23.7 | buzzwords of the last three to five years, but I don't think many people really have a |
| 0:29.0 | full understanding of what it is. So can you tell us a little bit more about that? |
| 0:32.6 | Yeah, so mindfulness, there's several definitions out there around mindfulness. |
| 0:36.7 | The one that I really like is mindfulness is the practice of paying attention to our present moment experiences with an attitude of openness and curiosity and a willingness to experience what is. So it's really all about being with our life as it is. And I even like a shorter definition |
| 0:56.9 | is kind of like making friends with our life in this moment. That's fascinating. Okay. See, |
| 1:03.9 | I've never heard a definition that thorough that includes curiosity and openness. The definitions |
| 1:09.7 | I've heard just dealt with awareness and being present. |
| 1:14.0 | So why are curiosity and openness important if you're going to be mindful? |
| 1:18.6 | So mindfulness, it is about awareness and being present, but it's also like what is the quality |
| 1:23.8 | of your attention when you're paying attention. So we can be aware and be resistant |
| 1:28.4 | to what's happening or we can be aware and be kind of like wishing that this moment was |
| 1:35.4 | different, basically. And so the openness and the curiosity, I think, brings us into the moment |
| 1:41.8 | in a way that opens our minds and opens our ability to take |
| 1:47.4 | in what's happening with non-judgment. And that's a tall order, non-judgment. Instead of saying |
| 1:53.9 | non-judgment, I like to say openness and curiosity because we are going to get caught up in |
| 1:58.6 | judgment about the moment from time to time, no matter who we are. |
| 2:02.7 | But curiosity and openness are things that are a little more doable for a lot of people, I think. |
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