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Am I the Jerk?

Karen DEMANDS A REFUND for WEDDING PHOTOS from 5-YEARS AGO after she got A DIVORCE

Am I the Jerk?

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Relationships, Society & Culture

4.83.2K Ratings

🗓️ 27 November 2025

⏱️ 23 minutes

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0:00.0

An entitled Karen demands a full refund on the wedding photos I took for her five years ago,

0:05.4

claiming that because she got a divorce and her marriage fell apart,

0:08.3

she should get a full refund for the wedding photos that I took.

0:11.5

But after I told her, I wouldn't refund her the $3,000 she paid five years ago,

0:16.3

she's now claiming that I'm profiting off of her misery,

0:19.2

somehow shifting the blame of her marriage falling

0:21.2

apart on my shoulders. Here's what happened. I'm a 34-year-old female, and I am a wedding photographer

0:26.6

with over a decade of experience. Five years ago, I was hired by a woman who we will call Emily

0:31.9

to photograph her wedding. At the time, she was very happy with my work, and I provided a package

0:37.0

that included a full-day shoot,

0:39.1

an engagement session, a wedding album, and digital copies of all the edited photos.

0:44.3

She and her then-husband, who we will call Jake, left a glowing review and recommended me to

0:49.1

several friends, and everything was great.

0:51.6

Well, fast forward to two weeks ago, and I get an email from Emily. She says

0:55.8

that she and Jake divorced last year and that she wants a refund for the wedding photos because they

1:00.9

no longer hold any value to her. She said it's unfair that she paid so much for photos that now

1:06.5

only serve as a painful reminder of a relationship that didn't last. Now, at first, I honestly

1:11.6

thought it was a joke, but she was being completely serious, meaning that she's asking for a full

1:16.4

refund, which would be about $3,000. I politely declined and explained that the service was rendered

1:22.6

in full. The photos were delivered, and she had no complaints at the time, but she insists that I am profiting

1:28.5

off of her misery and that a refund is the least I can do given her circumstances.

1:33.6

I've never encountered anything like this before, and while I do feel bad that her marriage

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