For the T, it actually came last.

Really?

Yes.

Sometimes I hear people have the title first and then write the whole entire book.

But I didn't know what it was going to be when I first started writing the book.

It was more of a transmission.

So the naming was at the very, very end.

And that was kind of the cherry on top.

And I wrote the book, I had the idea of what it would be,

but no title could encapsulate what it was. and so I kind of wrote out maybe a couple of

different titles and I didn't like any of them they were too self-helpy too cheesy too salesy

and I think I went on a walk or something like that where I was showering which is the typical story

and then it just hit me out of nowhere don't believe everything you think I went on a walk or something like that, where I was showering, which is the typical story.

And then it just hit me out of nowhere.

Don't believe everything you think.

And that was it.

There was no weighing it, comparing it.

It was just when you know, you know.

Yeah, when I saw the title,

it motivated me to wanna see what was inside.

That's beautiful. That's what motivated me too. I wonder. And I was just so curious. So it's

jarring but gentle when you hear the title in that way. It's challenging in a way, but in a good way.

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