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Jocko Underground: How to Deal with Adult Bullies.

Jocko Podcast

Jocko DEFCOR Network

Management, History, Business

4.831.3K Ratings

🗓️ 24 February 2025

⏱️ 15 minutes

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Summary

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Transcript

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0:00.0

This is the Jocko Underground podcast number 156 with Echo Charles and me.

0:04.4

Jocko Willink got some questions from the troops.

0:08.6

First one, I'll be interested to see your assessment of the first one.

0:14.8

Yeah, let's get into it.

0:15.6

It goes hard. Okay.

0:17.4

First question.

0:18.8

I work in a role where I often make final decisions on business financing transactions.

0:23.8

I've worked in this role for three years playing a major part in turning the company around to the positive.

0:29.5

We have an internal sales team who work on commission of these transactions.

0:35.3

And I have the final say if they're approved or not and these decisions

0:38.4

are factually 100% up to discretion.

0:42.4

There's one team member in particular who it seems cannot handle adverse decisions and

0:48.1

goes out of the way to over the top, sorry, goes out of the way to be over the top disrespectful and insulting whenever there's a chance to speak to me without the sea level execs around.

1:00.0

Very small company.

1:01.2

Over three years, what started as simply crass has escalated to outright offensive.

1:08.5

Sexual jokes about my wife and two-year-old son outright just calling me a faggot and telling me fuck you. First thing in the morning.

1:16.6

Not leaving my office when asked and standing over my shoulder trying to make sure I'm skipping to his files.

1:21.6

I'm confident in my ability to physically defend myself.

1:25.6

Small guy with five years of jiu-jitsu training, not too

1:28.2

scary. However, as a guy doing a job in finance trying to support a soon-to-be family of four,

1:33.4

physical violence is not worth the risk, especially in the workplace, over somebody who is clearly

1:38.4

acting horribly and in the wrong. It took too long for me to formally complain about this

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