This is something you are just going to have to accept and get over it or not because it's

something that you're going to constantly think about all the time.

What does it matter?

Does the whole town know that she hooked up with 40 people and then you constantly have

to have a conversation about it or is it just between you two?

You're listening to Sex with Emily.

I'm Dr. Emily and I'm here to help you prioritize your pleasure and liberate the conversation

around sex.

You've heard this one before but the sexiest quality in the world is confidence and that's

true but it's not always easy to muster.

Confidence is an inside job but here's the good news.

Once you generate on your own terms life and sex get a whole lot easier.

So on today's Ask Emily Show I'm doing my dear friend and former co-host Menace.

You might know him from the Woody Show and we talk confidence, jealousy, self image and

what happens when you adore your partner but can't stop thinking about their high body

count or you want to have hot phone sex with a long distance lover but you don't know

where to start.

Well we talk through both or how about when you've discovered something about your partner

like a secret can of delay spray or the fact that they want you to be more dominant

and bad.

I help you find the confidence to talk about both.

Finally for the ultimate confidence test, open relationships.

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