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Jillian on Love

Jay Shetty: When a Relationship is Beyond Repair

Jillian on Love

Daylight Media

Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Mental Health, Relationships

4.81.5K Ratings

🗓️ 26 January 2026

⏱️ 84 minutes

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Summary

Jillian sits down with Jay Shetty to talk about what “the work” in love actually looks like — in real time. Jay shares why he created Messy Love (his Audible Original), where listeners get to “sit in the room” with real couples as they navigate cheating narratives, unmet expectations, old wounds, and the messy middle between conflict and connection. Jillian and Jay unpack why compassion isn’t permissive — it’s structured, boundaried, and powerful — and why most relationship fights spiral into accusation, criticism, and defense… leaving zero room for love. If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re asking your partner to change…or asking them to be someone they’re simply not, this episode will land. Listen to Messy Love: Difficult Conversations for Deeper Connection Try Jillian on Love Plus FREE for 30 days! Download Jillian’s FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/workbook  Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman Submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://forms.gle/FbtgkGTwfnrjvHwW7  Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hey everybody, welcome back to Jillian On Love. I'm really excited to share that Jillian on Love is being featured in the Apple Podcasts Live Well Collection. And to celebrate, we're offering a special New Year subscription offer. For the month of January, you can start with a free 30-day trial when you subscribe on Apple Podcasts.

0:23.5

As a subscriber, you'll get ad-free listening and access to exclusive Thursday episodes

0:29.8

where I answer your questions and offer more personal guidance around the things you're

0:34.3

actually navigating in your relationships. This is a limited time New Year offer.

0:40.4

And if you've been feeling curious about the subscriber episodes,

0:43.9

this is a really easy, no pressure way to try them out.

0:47.3

Just tap the try-free button on Apple Podcasts.

0:51.5

Now let's get into today's episode.

1:06.8

Hey everyone, welcome back to Jillian on Love. Today's episode is a really special one. I'm sitting down with number one New York Times bestselling author, host of the on-purpose podcast,

1:13.4

speaker and coach Jay Shetty. We talk about his new audible original called messy love,

1:20.8

difficult conversations for deeper connection. And in this series, Jay works hands-on with real couples navigating very real relationship

1:32.0

challenges from communication breakdowns and trust issues to mismatch values, resentment, and the

1:38.7

stories that we tell ourselves about love. We talk about what it's actually like to coach couples in the

1:45.8

middle of that mess and crisis, the compassion it takes to hold space without rushing to fix

1:53.0

anyone's problems, and the practical communication tools Jay teaches that help couples move

1:59.8

out of blame and into repair and connection. It's amazing.

2:05.3

I think you are going to love this conversation. All 10 episodes of messy love came out

2:11.4

January 22nd exclusively on Audible, and I'm really excited for you to listen to this episode. So without further ado,

2:20.7

Jay Shetty and me. Jay Shetty, welcome to the show. Hey, Gillian. It's so good to see you.

2:28.3

I know. It's so, it's so lovely to see you again, and I'm very excited to have you here. So thank you for

2:33.5

coming. Now, I'm so grateful to have you here. So thank you for coming.

2:39.9

Now, I'm so grateful. I loved our conversation on my podcast and everyone else loved seeing it too and you had so many great insights and wisdom. So I'm really thankful to be on your platform.

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