Jake’s First Kiss & Other Things He Never Talks About
Seeing Other People
Ilana Dunn
4.5 • 608 Ratings
🗓️ 27 October 2025
⏱️ 50 minutes
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Summary
Ilana is one week out from the marathon and feeling overwhelmed with everything happening at once. Jake asks how she’s holding up and shares how he’s feeling ahead of his surgery. We get into Jake’s dating history, the hilarious story of his first kiss, how his work schedule kept him from dating for years, and why we’re glad we didn’t meet any earlier. We also talk about Season 2 of Nobody Wants This and the parallels between the couples on the show and our own relationship. Listener questions include handling a partner who hasn’t said “I love you” yet and believing good guys are still out there.
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| 0:00.0 | okay welcome back to another episode of co-hosts for life i'm jake i'm alana and yeah we're doing this for |
| 0:10.1 | actually the second time we just recorded for i don't know 15 minutes or something like that it was a good |
| 0:16.5 | 15 minutes and yeah and then alana looked over and saw that it wasn't recording her audio. |
| 0:24.0 | So we're going to go at it again, which is always like really awkward. |
| 0:29.0 | I feel better because I hear Jared talk about sometimes. |
| 0:31.1 | He's like, I just restarted and like how many times we're going to record talking to myself. |
| 0:35.3 | And I don't know. |
| 0:36.2 | I find it funny. |
| 0:37.4 | Anyway, what we're going to talk about today |
| 0:39.9 | is well the Jets just had a big win so I'm pretty happy about that we're very happy for Jake we're |
| 0:45.1 | happy for Jake wait we also had a big win with the Jets yesterday they commented on our Instagram on a |
| 0:50.5 | clip from last week's episode it's not a win I think it it's a win. They're like the one comments. So what? No, it's not a one. You weren't, you're not even a little starstruck? From the Jets, some like kid on the Jets like Instagram account that gets paid like $20 an hour? No. Okay, fair. If it was Woody Johnson, I'd be even more upset, I think. Anyway, then we're going to talk about, I guess, a little bit of my dating life and my history. Alana says people are interested in that for whatever reason. It's not Alana says. We got a question. I think people want to get to know you better, and that's so fair. |
| 1:27.8 | So we're going to talk about your single life. So we'll talk about my single life. And then we're going to talk about, I've been watching, what's the show called? Anyone but you? No, that's the movie. You did this the other day, too. What's it called? Nobody wants this. What's anyone but you? the Glenn Powell, Sydney, Sweeney movie, |
| 1:45.1 | which I think you're thinking about because of |
| 1:47.4 | Chad Powers, |
| 1:48.2 | which is, guys, the best show ever. |
| 1:50.5 | If you're not watching Chad Powers, what are you doing? |
| 1:53.2 | Okay, so we've been watching Nobody Wants This. |
| 1:55.9 | Us and every other white American out there. |
| 2:00.7 | Yeah. And so anyway, there's a lot of like interesting dating dynamic conversations. |
| 2:07.5 | And so we're going to talk about some of the things that we saw and we'll go from there. |
| 2:10.9 | And some of them like hit them for us too. |
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