How to Get Over A Crush
Seeing Other People
Ilana Dunn
4.5 • 608 Ratings
🗓️ 23 October 2025
⏱️ 45 minutes
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Summary
I’m breaking down the exact things that helped me get over crushes I was never even technically with. From muting people like it’s a form of therapy to distracting myself with run clubs, puzzles, and absurdly dramatic TV shows, I’ve mastered the art of an emotional reset. If you’re spiraling over someone who was barely in your life, consider this your permission to move on for real.
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| 0:00.0 | Hello, hello. Okay, something really cool just happened to me. I mean, it's not that cool, |
| 0:08.3 | but it felt cool and special and meaningful. And so I want to share it with you guys because it's taken |
| 0:15.1 | almost five years of seeing other people to get to the place where this just happened, |
| 0:19.4 | where as you know, if you've been here for a minute, |
| 0:22.8 | we moved. Sorry for reminding you for the millions of time. But if you're new here, just in case |
| 0:27.8 | you don't know, we moved. Jake and I moved. And we have this separate space now for the podcast. |
| 0:34.6 | And this isn't my first episode. I've recorded in the second, the studio, |
| 0:40.1 | we'll call it the studio. This isn't the first episode I've recorded in the podcast chairs. |
| 0:44.8 | But this was the first time where I had an idea of something that I really wanted to talk to you |
| 0:50.9 | guys about. Well, I've had the idea for a week. I didn't just come up with this on a whim. |
| 0:58.9 | But like I've planned out this episode. But I had an idea of something I wanted to say in it. And I looked at the clock and I was like, oh, I have time. I can squeeze this in, but I can |
| 1:04.6 | just squeeze this in where if I were in my old apartment, I would have had to set up microphones, set up cameras. |
| 1:13.5 | If I were recording in the bedroom, I would have had to clean the bedroom. |
| 1:17.4 | If I were recording in the kitchen, and by kitchen, I mean like at my kitchen table, |
| 1:21.6 | which I normally did, I still would have to rearrange furniture to do so because there was a mirror right behind me |
| 1:29.6 | that reflected all the mess from our like mud roomy area with all of our shoes and stuff. |
| 1:35.4 | And so I would take that off the wall every single time. |
| 1:38.4 | And so I couldn't just plop down and record. |
| 1:42.5 | And that's something I've just wanted to be able to do for so long. |
| 1:46.0 | I might not even, I honestly don't have that much time right now. So I'm like, oh, well, I have |
| 1:51.0 | 20 minutes. I can pop in and record part of this episode and then pop in and record the rest of it |
| 1:56.0 | another time. And it just, it's really cool to, you know, be in this place where I can do that. |
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