Hi, my name is John Kim and I'm a therapist who went through his own

rebirth. I share my feelings and revelations. I believe in casual or

clinical and with you instead of at you I come unrehearsed on

purpose because self-help doesn't have to be so complicated. You know what I

don't understand which boggles my mind people who don't like pizza

they exist I've met them now I get it if you don't like sushi I could eat sushi every day but there's some people who just don't like raw fish, I get it, that's understandable.

But if you don't like hot dough with melted cheese and marinero sauce in your mouth, I don't understand you.

And it's almost like, it's not even a preference thing or it's not it's like I don't understand you I can't

comprehend why you don't like that so it makes me not trust you and it's going to be

hard to be your friend.

All right, let's talk about a universal law that I believe in because I've experienced

it so many times and I hope I could get this in in about 15

minutes we'll see but it has to do with this whole concept of attracting versus chasing which I talk about a lot and I've

been obsessed with it.

I really believe in it and I believe in it because I felt it in my own life.

So it's not like, you know, I learned about it or I watched videos or took a course.

It's like directly from my own life and personal experiences.

So here's the universal law I believe in.

If you want something, and it doesn't matter what it is,

if you want something really bad, like all of us do, right?

So it doesn't matter if what you want is a relationship,

or maybe a healthy relationship, or to find someone,

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