It's Not Regression

Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled

JLML Press

Kids & Family, Parenting

4.7 • 3.8K Ratings

🗓️ 24 June 2020

⏱️ 22 minutes

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Summary

A parent describes the stress her family has been experiencing over the past several months and believes her 4.5 year old son has been particularly affected. “He was in Montessori and becoming very independent. Little by little, we’ve seen a huge regression in his behavior.” She describes a number of issues where she sees her son regressing, including hitting, kicking and throwing things; disrespecting her body with unwanted touching; and an unwillingness to wipe himself after using the toilet. This last issue recently caused a physical altercation which this mom truly regrets. She wants to know how to encourage her son’s developing independence “without resorting to negative and hurtful parenting tactics.” Janet offers her advice. For more advice on common parenting issues, please check out Janet's best-selling books on Audible, FREE with a 30-day trial membership if you use this link: adbl.co/2OBVztZ. Paperbacks and e-books are also available at Amazon, Google Play, Barnes & Noble and Apple Books. Janet's exclusive audio series "Sessions" is available for download. This is a collection of recorded one-on-one consultations with parents discussing their most immediate and pressing concerns (www.SessionsAudio.com). Our Sponsors:* Check out BabyQuip and use my code UNRUFFLED for a great deal: http://www.babyquip.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0	My favorite thing to hear as I'm wrapping up an extensive consultation or a group session
0:05.4	with parents is when they say, now I can't wait to see my child and trial this out.
0:11.8	The secret to finding more ease and joy in caring for our children is a perspective shift.
0:17.0	It's about the way we see our children and understand our role in their lives.
0:21.5	And unfortunately, quick tips and strategies and sound bites, they can't make this shift
0:25.9	for us.
0:26.9	We need something thorough.
0:27.9	We need the whole picture.
0:29.6	I've created the resource that will give you that.
0:32.0	The No Bad Kids Master Course.
0:34.7	You can check out all the details at nobadkidscourse.com.
0:38.6	Hi, this is Janet Lansbury.
0:43.6	Welcome to Unruffled.
0:45.2	Today I'm going to be addressing an email I received from a parent whose major concern
0:50.6	is that her son, who's four and a half years old, seems to be showing what she describes
0:56.5	as a huge regression.
0:59.1	There are a lot of upsetting elements in this family's life.
1:04.7	And she notices that her son is being disrespectful of her body and seems to be regressing in
1:10.0	other areas as well.
1:11.5	And she's resorted to hitting him, which she feels terrible about.
1:16.0	So I hope to offer this family some perspective and help.
1:22.8	Okay, here's the email I received.
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