My favorite thing to hear as I'm wrapping up an extensive consultation or a group session

with parents is when they say, now I can't wait to see my child and trial this out.

The secret to finding more ease and joy in caring for our children is a perspective shift.

It's about the way we see our children and understand our role in their lives.

And unfortunately, quick tips and strategies and sound bites, they can't make this shift

for us.

We need something thorough.

We need the whole picture.

I've created the resource that will give you that.

The No Bad Kids Master Course.

You can check out all the details at nobadkidscourse.com.

Hi, this is Janet Lansfury.

Welcome to Unruffled.

Today I have a question from a parent who is wondering what she might be doing wrong

because her child does not seem to give up and accept no for an answer ever.

This parent is losing her patience, she's ending up yelling at her child, understandably,

because her daughter is asking the same question 25 or more times to do something that the

parent has already said no to.

So she hopes to get some help with communicating to her daughter that no means no.

Okay, here's the note I received.

Hello Janet.

I was wondering if you have an article about no means no.

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