Hi, my name is John Kim. I'm a therapist who went through his own rebirth many years ago

and I've been documenting my journey ever since sharing my life lessons and revelations.

I believe in casual or clinical with you instead of at you. I come unrehearsed on purpose

because self-health doesn't have to be so complicated.

So I would like to start with a quote by Taylor Swift. Is that okay with you?

Sure.

I love Tay Tay Tay Tay, you know her?

She says, is it insensitive of me to ask you to get your shit together so I could love you?

What do you think about that?

I think Teet speaks for a lot of us.

I like that she says, get your shit together so I can love you, meaning she wants to love her,

him, whoever him is, but...

Kind of their shit together.

I mean, that's loving somebody for their potential.

I feel like I've been in that situation a million times in my life.

Well, I like the idea that you can't love someone even though you want to

until they are at a place to be loved. That's what's interesting about the quote for me.

To me, it just rings.

It just reminds me of being in that place of loving someone for their potential

and being like, if only you would get your shit together this could work or I could

love you more or it also reminds me of all of our 20s.

A lot of us.

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