You're listening to the Impact Theory Podcast, your source of empowering ideas and actionable techniques from the world's highest achievers. Join host Tom Billiou, serial entrepreneur and co-founder of the billion dollar brand Quest Nutrition, on a journey to unlock your potential and realize your vision of success. Welcome to Impact Theory. All right, there it is. We're live. We are live. What's up everybody? Welcome to Relationship Theory. This is very strangely. Yeah, I'm just gonna be getting, I don't know. I was there to press the button. And now we're in position. We are. Okay, so we're gonna kick, we're going to be taking your questions. So welcome, drop them in. This is going to be amazing. Yeah, let's do it. Hi guys. Okay, so submit your relationship questions. I know you already said it, but we're answering live, so drop them in the comments below. And also, put your notifications on

so that you guys know when we are live.

I always point up here, I have no idea

where the actual button is, but let's pretend it's okay.

That's all right.

In the main apps, I actually point like this,

and then we've created a little box

that actually points to where it is.

All right.

So kick off with, would you rather?

All right, people answer with us. Would you rather move in with your partner after only one date or go an entire decade

without living together?

Well, if you had your way, we would have moved in very quickly.

Yeah, but not after the first date.

But we will probably lay...

This question is meant to destroy relationships.

Either way you choose, you lose.

So, the honest answer is, because I don't think the relationship is. This is a lot of sign that, believe me. I know. Here, oh, God. So this is you and I, knowing what I know now or like, back in the day. All right. So here's the, after a single date, because that way the relationship will either implode or it will become the strongest relationship of all time because you had to deal with some really intense shit right out of the gate. I would say a decade, because I can always hang out at your place and stay the night, but I think after one day, everything that you did that would be weird, like it would be so heightened for me and then feeling trapped. I don't know you well enough to then talk to you about it. It would just, for the first, I think six months, I would have utter anxiety. You've just seen our personalities that work. And an absolute microcosm of what actually happened in our lives. In fact, yeah, exactly. want to tell a story? No, please go ahead. Okay. So we had actually just met. We'd been dating for about a month. I had to go to England because of visa reasons. I came back because you got me a job on a film set as a working on a film set. So he said, well, instead of wasting money, why don't you just come and stay with me? Well, yes, I mean, we'd been dating for a month. We did. We'd been dating for months. Well, we were with each other for a month, in each other's space. But then I went to England. So then you invited me back. So dating, here I go there, spend time with you, come back, we're dating, and then you come back. Yeah. So, mum, so mum. See, you can tell, this is the argument we had. So, you basically loved, you wanted me to be there. I was worried that I'm coming to America. I always like to hedge my bets on being somewhat careful with things like that. I didn't really know you well enough to go, well, you may turn into a psychopath.

And so if that happens now, I'm living at your place.

And so I think it's best I get my own place. And then if I want to stay every night at your place and I'll stay every night, and you actually got upset with me initially, because I didn't stay with you. You took that personally. Yes. Which is by the way, the only way to take it. But if I had the mindset that I have now, then yes,

I would not have been traumatized.

I would have seen it from your perspective

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