Welcome to Betrayal Trauma Recovery. This is Anne. I'm going to continue my conversation with

Ms. C, a member of our community. If you didn't listen to last week's episode, go there,

listen to that first, and then join us here. Before we get to that, so many of you are joining Betrayal

Trauma Recovery Group, which is our daily live online group. We have multiple sessions a day in

every single time zone. When you join, you get unlimited support. Our coaches are incredible.

They get it without you having to explain anything, without you having to justify how you feel.

They can actually help you. You don't have to try to help them get it. They'll help you get it

and help you know how to create peace and safety in your life. Check out the session schedule

at btr.org and we'd love to see you in a session today. I've been reading some of the five

start ratings we receive on Apple podcasts. Here's one called Peace and Safety. Peace and safety,

peace and safety. These are what I have now. I found this podcast two years ago and so wish I had

found it sooner. I spent years trying to figure out what the heck was going on with my ex-husband.

Now I know it was emotional and mental abuse. Instead of trying to find peace and safety for

myself and my three children. I went in reconciliation. I yearned for it. He knew it and used it to draw

out our marriage all the while building a relationship with his girlfriend and her husband. All three

live in what is now known as a polyamorous relationship along with the couple's son. I hope new

listeners going through what I did take Anne's encouragement to make the goal peace and safety and

not try to figure out what is going on with their abuser. Thank you for the podcast and I now have

peace and safety. Well thank you for the five star rating. Every single one of your five star

ratings helps isolated women find us. They are searching. They want to know what's going on.

They're trying to figure out is this pornography addiction? Is this a personality disorder?

What am I supposed to do? How can I make my marriage better? They need to know that it's abuse and

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