Is This Cheating? Liking Bikini Pics, Group Chat ‘Banter’ & Phone Snooping
The Therapy Crouch
Therapy Crouch
4.7 • 3.7K Ratings
🗓️ 25 February 2026
⏱️ 18 minutes
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Summary
On today’s Ask Us Anything episode of The Therapy Crouch, Abbey, Peter and Ross dive head-first into your juiciest dilemmas – and this one gets heated.
We hear from a newlywed struggling with intimacy after anxiety medication kills his wife’s sex drive, sparking an honest conversation about desire, frustration and when it’s time to get professional help.
Then things really kick off as Abbey reacts to a listener who went through her partner’s phone and found bikini pics, pub messages and lads’ group chat behaviour that crosses the line. Is it just “boys’ banter”… or is it borderline cheating?
From trust, boundaries and when sorry just isn’t enough, to iconic football songs and questionable swimming chat, this episode has everything.
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00:00 – Intro, ropey voices & “bleed Therapy Crouch”
01:20 – Cameras down throats & medical horror stories
02:00 – Nicknames chat begins (Matalan, Motion Sensor Light, Curly Whirly)
04:16 – Agony Ab 1: Newlyweds, anxiety meds & no sex
06:20 – “Turbo vs handbrake” & fantasy conversation gets awkward
07:40 – Why fantasising about people you know is dangerous
09:12 – GP advice & “above our pay grade” moment
10:14 – YNWA vs Delilah – which song hits harder?
12:05 – Agony Ab 2: Went through his phone… found bikini pics
13:25 – Pub messages, group chats & “men need to grow up”
14:19 – “That’s borderline cheating” & breaking trust
15:49 – When sorry isn’t enough & healing takes time
16:42 – Final verdict: dump him or set hard boundaries
17:00 – Hot toddy, swimming & gun show jokes
18:12 – Outro
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| 0:00.0 | We had at one point not done it for nine months. |
| 0:02.4 | All of this resulted in my mind spiraling about freesoms and couple swaps |
| 0:06.8 | and either other women from both my work and her friend group. |
| 0:11.1 | That's a bit too much too much. |
| 0:13.1 | Don't bet on your bridges there, lass. |
| 0:14.6 | We didn't need to know that. |
| 0:15.9 | We shouldn't have problems in the bedroom at this stage. |
| 0:18.5 | This is something for 10 years down the last. |
| 0:20.0 | Yeah. |
| 0:23.2 | It comes in about 13 years, man. |
| 0:27.5 | Remember, guys, if you're really enjoying this top quality content that we're producing, |
| 0:31.4 | hit subscribe. |
| 0:33.0 | It helps. |
| 0:33.5 | Ask me anything. |
| 0:36.3 | Shaba. |
| 0:39.4 | Hello, and welcome to the therapy crouch Ask us anything with me Abby Clancy |
| 0:41.2 | Me, Peter Crouch |
| 0:42.3 | Hey guys, how are you doing? |
| 0:43.6 | Thank you, thanks |
| 0:44.3 | Feel a bit rope your IP |
| 0:45.2 | Yeah, sorry |
| 0:46.0 | I apologise |
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