Is taking a break before breaking up the final blow to the relationship?
Love and Abuse
Paul Colaianni
4.7 • 879 Ratings
🗓️ 12 October 2023
⏱️ 34 minutes
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Summary
The thought of breaking up or separating from a toxic person can be a difficult decision to make. But taking a break before a breakup can bring clarity and perspective in a problematic relationship, helping you rediscover something you lost and even help decide if you really want to make that difficult decision or take a different path.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to Love and Abuse, the show about navigating the difficult relationship, |
| 0:05.0 | from simple disagreements to emotionally abusive behaviors. |
| 0:08.1 | You deserve respecting kindness. |
| 0:10.5 | All the information on this show is meant for educational purposes only. |
| 0:13.9 | Always seek a professional for your mental health and well-being, and always pick your battles wisely. |
| 0:19.1 | I'm your host, Paul Koliani. |
| 0:28.3 | Thank you for joining me for another episode of love and abuse. |
| 0:30.7 | If this is your first time, welcome to the show. |
| 0:35.6 | And if you aren't familiar with what emotional abuse is, |
| 0:40.6 | I have a lot of episodes to listen to to help you through that and help you navigate the difficulties of a controlling and emotionally abusive relationship. |
| 0:45.3 | And of course, this is also a show about trying to create the healthiest relationship possible. |
| 0:51.8 | Whether you believe the person that you're trying to connect with is abusive or not, |
| 0:56.1 | or if they're just damn difficult. There are some people that are just very difficult and some of them are |
| 1:03.7 | toxic. Some of them just don't know any better. Some of them don't even know they're difficult and they |
| 1:09.3 | think everyone else is difficult. Or maybe they blame difficult and they think everyone else is difficult. |
| 1:11.3 | Or maybe they blame you for everything and everyone else is perfect. |
| 1:15.1 | That unfortunately happens a lot, especially in romantic relationships. |
| 1:19.4 | One person blames the other and says, it's all you. |
| 1:22.4 | I'm not the problem. |
| 1:23.7 | I can't do anything wrong. |
| 1:25.7 | And that's when I see an unbalanced relationship. Someone who says, I can't do anything wrong. And that's when I see an unbalanced relationship. Someone who says, I can't do |
| 1:31.1 | anything wrong. I'm not doing anything wrong. You're the problem. You're everything that's wrong with |
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