How you describe the challenges in your relationship can reveal if youre being emotionally abused
Love and Abuse
Paul Colaianni
4.7 • 879 Ratings
🗓️ 6 September 2023
⏱️ 13 minutes
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Summary
The language you use to describe your relationship and how you're getting along with the other person says a lot. If you've ever wondered if you are the hurtful one or they are, the words you use can reveal just what role you play in the dynamic of an emotionally abusive relationship.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to Love and Abuse, the show about navigating the difficult relationship, |
| 0:05.0 | from simple disagreements to emotionally abusive behaviors. |
| 0:08.1 | You deserve respecting kindness. |
| 0:10.5 | All the information on this show is meant for educational purposes only. |
| 0:13.9 | Always seek a professional for your mental health and well-being, and always pick your battles wisely. |
| 0:19.1 | I'm your host, Paul Koliani. |
| 0:28.7 | Welcome to another episode of love and abuse. |
| 0:30.8 | If this is your first time, welcome to the show. |
| 0:35.2 | I am here to help you navigate difficult relationships and try to clear up the confusion. And one of the common |
| 0:40.8 | messages that I receive is about confusion. They ask, am I the abusive one? Are they the |
| 0:48.3 | abusive one? I'm so confused. I don't know. So they send me these messages asking me to help them determine who's |
| 0:57.0 | the abusive one. And I've actually created episodes on that. In fact, I'll tell you what they are. |
| 1:04.0 | They are called. One of them is, am I the emotionally abusive one? What are the signs of an emotionally |
| 1:10.0 | abusive person? |
| 1:13.7 | Another one that might be helpful is what is emotional abuse? |
| 1:16.6 | How do I know when it's time to leave and other important questions? |
| 1:18.7 | That's the entire episode title. |
| 1:23.5 | And another long title, emotional abuse explained for your friends, family, attorney, therapist, or anyone else that may need to know what you're experiencing. |
| 1:27.4 | I know. It's a long title, |
| 1:28.8 | but it is definitely recommended if you're trying to determine what behaviors make up emotional |
| 1:35.8 | abuse. And it can be very helpful to know those behaviors just to assess them yourself, |
| 1:42.0 | trying to figure out if you're the one doing it or they're the one doing |
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