It's the Virch Show.

I think there's a very easy answer to the question, am I being an a-hole?

If you're talking about somebody's looks, and here is the question, did they ask?

If they asked, then you're not the a-hole.

If they didn't, then I think you're an a-ho.

I don't know.

I kind of see where this person is coming from, and maybe it is a-hole vibes, but I can't

really blame them.

So she writes, am I the a-hole for telling my friend she's in the same league as the men

she calls ugly?

My friend, who's 19 female, downloaded dating apps like Tinder and Hinge for the first time about a week ago.

For reference, she's the type that always says she wants a boyfriend, wants to do a couple things, feels lonely, being single, etc.

She's also, in my opinion, at least, very normal and average looks wise.

Not ugly, not super hot, just all right.

Since then, she's been complaining to me that almost all the men on these apps are ugly or don't come up to her standards and that she doesn't

ever match with anybody hot. I asked to see which people she was calling ugly and so she showed me

her likes and it showed mostly people perfectly in her league as in

moderately attractive guys again not ugly not super hot just all right i told her that these guys

were all in her league and she should give some of them a chance and she always complains

about wanting to be in a relationship she denied that she's in the same league as them and said

she's much more attractive than them.

I pointed out that in her own words, she doesn't match with any of the guys.

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